"but they cost so much, he wants to give them to his son. "Here, kid, these'll kill ya eventually, but they cost a lot so....smoke 'em up!" As a smoker I totally get it. As an EX smoker that thinking is beyond comprehension.
I do understand what you mean about it being a psychological failure to go down there and look. I think you would feel more free if you knew they were gone. Simply asking your husband would give you that answer. If they are not, then I would suggest requesting that he tell you when they are.
