I’m reaching out and offering my hand Kim....for peace friendship and a prayer that you become successful with your quit and anything else that grieves you.
we are all here for one thing....to quit, help each other quit and lead each other with a warm heart. Congrats on day three
Missy
You may feel alone Kim but you're not, we're all here to help you in any way we can just let us know how we can help you through the rough patches, congrats on your 3 precious Days WON.....
Oh Kim you are not alone. I found that when I feel alone and it happens, I come on this site where people are going through the same thing, have been there, or trying to get started. We all need someone to care. You have so many of us right here. Take my hand. Tomorrow I may need you to give me yours. You can do this.
Barb
Hi I almost blew it yesterday took my patch off got in my car and said enough already. Then I just sat there and cried. It passed. I feel trapped in this house. We still don’t have power phone TV music and internet. Now another storm is coming. I just sit here taking care of my husband and cleaning since I don’t know what else to do. I’m sorry for going on and on. You are always there for me.
Barb
Barb, Im so sorry you dont have power? Weather? Im sorry hard to keep up with so much on the site. Wow sounds like your doing great under the boredom walk. Any stationary non-electrical exercise equp.? I have lots to clean, that doesnt really get it for me. I dont think I was born to cook and clean and such. Hate that stuff. But, I earn my keep ill send you my private email. Phone # if or when you can use your phone. in box!
I think it's pretty wonderful that, in the midst of feeling loneliness, you hop on here and leave comments to make other people feel better as they cope with their various challenges.
I won't tell you not to feel lonely. Go ahead and feel your way through it. Once you do, I hope you'll see how many people you have here (and not here, I'm sure) who care about you.
If you were closer, I'd invite you over for a bowl of homemade chicken noodle soup. I made it in honor of this bizarre March snowfall: 9 inches at my house, and we haven't had more than about 3 inches total all winter. It's why my grandmother, a lifelong resident of Louisville, KY, always said never to plant tomatoes before Derby Day
Awwwwwwww so sweet thank you. I would love some homemade Chicken soup. I was hoping for one more blast of snow. Also enjoy the spring, watching a lot of my flowers come up. Being I cant drive right now, snow fall would be heavenly. IDK there is something about a lot of snow, makes me feel nestled in and cozy. Weird I know. If I could be-bop around in the car that would be great to. I'll be driving soon I hope. I have some great neighbors, I could visit, but they smoke! So don't need that temptation ya know?
Many blessings Bdwallhau
Hugs Kim
Oh sure, you want snow in Ohio and I'm getting it in the south. What's wrong with this picture? I will send it all to you if it will go. I bet schools will be closed tomorrow if there's even 2 snowflakes on the ground! To be honest, nobody here can drive in it anyway, they freak out so the less people on the roads the better.
I PERSONALLY HATE SNOW in any way shape or form! If it would make you feel better and I had a magic wand...I'd just Zap my foot of snow here on the Ponderosa to You in an instant! So sorry you are having such a struggle....I'm sorry that I haven't been online much,since traveling from TX to ND. Still Tons to do here to be on an even playing field....Probably good for me...because I don't have time to think about the fact I have chosen to be a NON-Smoker....
Tomorrow the whole day is spent traveling to capitol city for dental and everything we need to replace here....
I wish, I could Shoot a VAnilla frosted Pumpkin Bar through my PC for You.....Thought I should bake hubby something...
Anywho, timer went off and I have chicken get ready to bake in oven....yellow rice to cook later,salad is made and our pumpkin bars. I am Screwed up with Time change...ARE YOU??????? I didn't wake up until 10:30 this morning.
I still have to read at site and exercise before bed. I guess, for Me to Keep moving helps me the most.... I live 10 miles from the nearest store.....
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TO KEEP PUTTING THE EFFORT INTO A QUIT!!!!! I KNOW IT IS THE HARDEST THING I'VE EVER DONE!!!! JUST HANG IN THERE...I KNOW YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE IT!!!! SENDING LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS. PRAIRIE 35 DOF
It has been snowing here for 5 hours now. Pretty but accidents everywhere! I hate snow. I do love the birds and my large bird feeders are overrun and they're stacked up in the waiting area with their names on the waiting list for a table. The feeders have been emptied out in less than two days!
Did I mention I hate snow?
Please I am talking about ME only ME not anyone else... just sharing MY experience.....YEARS AGO it was said to ME ... your ALONE because YOUR CHOOSING to be ALONE.... when I responded back I was YELLING with tears in MY eyes and a SNARL on MY face and ready to fight......I said....When I am in a room FULL OF PEOPLE and I still FEEL ALONE... it was SUGGESTED for ME to go to PROFESSIONAL THERAPY because ALL other humans could NOT HELP ME with the deeply rooted issues of MY ALONE. Professionals HELPED ME and TODAY I love MY ALONE time and I am NOT ALONE when others are in the room also... I took the SUGGESTION because I wanted to keep an open minded and I wanted to learn NEW self control to be taught what is MY responsibilities ONLY and it worked for ME... thanks for letting ME share MY experience...please take what HELPS and let go of the rest to be HELPFUL is MY only aim ....please keep coming BACK!
I have had lotsa PROFESSIONAL THERAPY" in my days as/am a human bean" THEY> the (professionals) < are all on meds and > They< are in therapy, now, doing fabulous I am told. " Thru the Grapevine."
No honestly Im very lonely. I'm a bit isolated, to not smoke.... my choice. I will keep coming back thank you so much <3.
Thank you again, indingrl.01.06.2011
hugs
You are so welcome please know thiss too shall pass and you are deeply love and highly favored and richly blessed and WE are HERE for you MY BELOVED RECOVERING FROM NICOTINE SISTER LIVING YOUR NON SMOKING LIFE ONE TEAR AT A TIME HANG IN THERE for ME I pray in MY Lord Jesus name amen
That is just too funny! I luv ya Kim and am lmao!! Maybe that's why I haven't been scratching behind my ears lately. I'm keeping that picture!!! So we ended up with a little over an inch of snow. Pretty but will be melting soon. I can deal with a few inches of snow as long as I don't have to join the idiots on the roads that have a lack of common sense driving in it. Accidents galore last night, including an ambulance.
popped in to see how it is going??? just about bedtime,better start heading that way........38 DOF Prairie
Still too cold in ND for me...wish I were still back in TX but had been without hubby long enough.......hopefully, temps will warm up soon........ and maybe spring will arrive in late March or early April???? Could be wishful thinking on my part too.........
Miles of Smiles.......