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boro0123
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Any Helpful conections?

Today is my Quit Day, took a shower last night and put on 21mg patch. I have a straw in my hand filled with cotton. I am on the computer now and would be smoking but no!! I have the 4mg logences to take for cravings if I loose control!! Any other help I would need I ask the community?

The Daily Pledge July 2018

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CommunityAdmin
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Congrats boro0123 !

Rick_M is actually from the same city! 

Yes, doing the Daily Pledge is one way to start off your quit journey successfully.  Reading to understand what you're going through and posting when you need support is important too.

Mark
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Barbscloud
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Welome to the Ex.  You've come to the right place for education, information, and support.  Read, read, and read some more.  The more you understand your addiction, the better your chances of success.   If you need help, reach out--we're here for you.  When I get a craving, I often come here to read until the craving passes.

Barb

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YoungAtHeart
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Welcome to our community!

Congratulations on your decision to quit smoking!  Tonight you will be able to celebrate Day WON!!!

I will caution you about using two forms of nicotine replacement products.  You should match the NRT dose to the amount you smoked...each cigarette was about 1 mg of nicotine - so the 21 mg patch is equal to about a pack a day.  If you add lozenges to them - you need to mindful of not getting too MUCH nicotine.  They should be used only as a last resort after other abstractions have been tried.

The most important thing you can do right now is to educate yourself on what nicotine does to your body and mind. To that end, I highly recommend Allen Carr's “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking.” This is an easy and entertaining read. You can search for it online or at your local library. Here's a link to a video here on the site which describes nicotine addiction: Nicotine and Your Brain - YouTube .

 You should also read the posts here and perhaps go to the pages of folks who you think might be helpful. You might visit whyquit.com, quitsmokingonline.com and livewell.com for the good information contained there.https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/groups/best-of-ex  has lots of blogs written by members of this site with their experiences and guidance.

The idea is to change up your routines so the smoking associations are reduced.  Drink your coffee with your OTHER hand in a place different from when you smoked. Maybe switch to tea for a bit.  If you always had that first smoke with your coffee, try putting your tennies on right out of bed, going for a quick walk, then taking your shower and THEN your coffee! Rearrange the furniture in the areas you used to smoke so the view is different. Buy your gas at a different station. Take a different route to work. Take a quick walk at break time where the smokers AREN'T.

You need to distract yourself through any craves.  You can take a bite out of a lemon (yup - rind and all), put your head in the freezer and take a deep breath of cold air, do a few jumping jacks, go for a brisk walk or march in place, play a computer game.  Keep a cold bottle of water with you from which to sip. Don't let that smoking thought rattle around in your brain unchallenged. Sometimes you need to quit a minute or an hour at a time.  You will need to be disciplined in the early days to distract yourself when a crave hits.    Get busy!  Here is a link to a list of things to do instead of smoke if you need some fresh ideas:

/blogs/Youngatheart.7.4.12-blog/2013/02/25/100-things-to-do-instead-of-smoke 

The conversation in your head in response to the "I want a cigarette" thought needs to be, "Well, since I have decided not to do that anymore, what shall I do instead for the three minutes this crave will last?"  Then DO it.  You will need to put some effort into this in the early days, but it gets easier and easier to do.

Stay close to us here and ask questions when you have them and for support when you need it. We will be with you every step of the way!

Nancy

Giulia
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I used the straw tool myself.  Wadded up that little piece of paper and "pretend" smoked.  Worked.  Then I had to wean myself of the straws.  lol  I also found that one of those sports bottles with the little nipples helped.  As did deep breathing.  I didn't know whether I'd sink from drinking so much water or float from taking so many deep breaths.  

Education about this addiction is really one of the best tools to have in our Quit Kits.  You cannot read too much on here.  The more we know of the journey from those who have preceded us, the less surprises there will be.  Chin up and have heart!

/blogs/Giulia-blog/2018/03/01/quitting-is-a-skill-that-can-be-learned?sr=search&searchId=473680ae-44...

maryfreecig
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Yup, ask the community, blog away as much as you wish. Even if your quit is going smoothly gaining support such as Ex and in your life and sticking with it can help create a great smobriety foundation. Welcome to Ex.

indingrl
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COOL! CONGRATS ON DAY 1-GOOD JOB!

elvan
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Welcome to EX and the best connections anywhere for someone who is quitting.  I, too, smoked for 47 years but thanks to this community and the support and education I received from here, I have been smoke free for over 4 years.  I never regret quitting, I will always regret starting but that doesn't do any good.  Smoking is an addiction and quitting is not an event, it is a one day at a time journey.  I used NOPE, Not One Puff Ever...Stay close to the site, come here every morning and every evening, read blogs, comment, ask for help and when advice is given...listen.  Read everything that YoungAtHeart‌ recommended and remember that we have all been where you are and we all want you to succeed.  Do all of the reading...you can do this.

Ellen

CommunityAdmin
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boro0123‌ Haven't seen you on in a while. How is your quit journey?

Mark
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Gwenivere
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That’s what I do.  Run into a snag or looking for similar experiences, I shoot up a flare.  Lots of helpful eyes around here.