if you are in the closet your friends and family can still smell the smoke on you in your house ect..... i am not trying to be mean because i may in up being in the closet one day myself just put your mind to it one more time to quit you have all of us out here on ex to help you do it this time you can do it there are all kinds of help out there if i can give up my "bestfriend" you can do it to just try one more time for you and your family and friends not trying to preach or sound hateful but if you are having to be in the closet why smoke at all do you like having to betray yourself your family and friends????? just want to help Edith