A blog by Dr. Hays which may help: https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/community/expert-advice/blog/2017/06/21/quitting-when-you-live-wi... And another from someone's personal experience: /blogs/Michwoman-blog/2013/05/29/quitting-when-you-live-with-a-smoker There are lots more blogs on this subject. Just put different queries into the community search box and see what comes up.
My opinion - if you've both tried to quit numerous times and when one gives in, it kind of gives permission and makes it a whole lot easier for the other person to give in too... and you both recognize that - then he will totally understand that he can't smoke in your presence. But, come on - let him smoke in the garage. Denying him his private place to smoke will not exactly produce a happy co-existence, shall I say. He IS an addict, after all. Just like you. You just happen to have been two days free of it. It's understandable to ask someone to keep their cigarettes, ashtrays, etc. out of your line of vision. But you also have to realize that in life you're going to see smokers everywhere you go. You can't hide from it.
Bottom line is - if you've made the commitment to stop, whether he has or not - whatever HE does won't change that commitment. It may make it a bit harder, but if it's a "no matter what" commitment - nothing will alter it's successful outcome.
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