I am just adding to my earlier post to clarify some thoughts and chime in on the things that have been said since it.
After re-reading my post I realized I sounded more like a victim than I wanted to convey. I know that I have responsibility for not taking hold of this addiction earlier.
I only spoke about the little kid in me that I remember…
I was just speaking to the fact that young kids were and still are preyed upon and I think that it is okay for government and big tobacco to be held accountable for that.
As smokers, we defended our smoking addiction for so long to those non-smokers in our lives that we didn't (or still don’t) even know what is true anymore.
It is my opinion/experience that we told ourselves all these things about smoking in defense. Somehow it is okay because it relieves stress, or it helps me concentrate, or it relieves boredom, or, on and on. We have said these things out loud and to ourselves for so many years, that some don't ever doubt these things, even in their quits.
You forget that you actually had NO CHOICE in becoming addicted. Yes, you do have a choice in quitting. But none of us signed up to be addicts. You didn't realize that all these defenses or excuses were lies. And that the truth is, cigarettes caused the symptoms they so-called relieve. They don't relieve stress - they cause stress by an almost immediate withdrawal cycle. They don't help you concentrate - it's withdrawal that causes distraction. On and on. These are my opinions and everyone might not sign up for this way of thinking. But this is what I believe and find helpful to think about.
I'm okay with being angry with big tobacco for their part in finding myself here. I would much rather focus on other things though. And I have found it very satisfying to help others get to where I'm at.
And I just want to say that I wholeheartedly agree with Connie in that it would be a great society where one thing helped address the ramification of its own reality. but sadly, in America, as we all are being made aware of hourly these days. It's about big money. Big Tobacco, Big Banking, Big Pharma, Big Whatever, period. In order for the money to go to the people tobacco has hurt the most, the government would have to be the one to press the case. Not likely seeing as all the Bigs in this country are currently in the back pocket of our government (again, just an opinion).
Why shouldn't families who are carrying debt upwards of 500-600K or much much more after supporting a parent through end stage lung cancer and death get assistance from the companies that put them there? Why should they go bankrupt so tobacco can keep profiting? That's all I'm saying.
I would love universal health care. I pay thousands of dollars a year just ‘in case’ I need to use a doctor....and don't. I would be okay in paying that in taxes....rather than paying the 'tax' to health insurance and also paying the tax to the government that is supporting the uninsured.
Okay, never mind....this site is about quitting smoking...not politics. And as you probably have surmised....I'm not so good about talking politics.
So in summary, I'm not litigious and not saying I think anyone should 'take advantage' (heh) of the tobacco companies. I just know that they are being held accountable in some cases and was shouting out that I was okay with that.
It is about taking responsibility. It is about making a choice. I agree. But sometimes the people hurt by tobacco aren't the people who made the 'choice' to smoke and/or be addicted to cigarettes. If you (anyone) can honestly say that you were educated about what you got into and still made the choice to smoke anyway, then that’s great. I just am not that person. I got sucked into it. And have hated it almost from the start. Every day of the past 20+ years has been my quit date. And I have quit for periods of time many many times. This is it though. I’m finished. And that is all I’m screaming. 🙂
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