Give and get support around quitting
Good Morning Ex Team/Group Members!!!!
I have not been able to get past these last 2-3 cigs a day.
Doing taxes (owe thousands) has been an excuse to throw me backwards.
I have been having urges for more cigs and have failed a few times and smoked more that my allotted 3 cigs per day.
I am confessing my failure in hopes that it will bring me back to the enthusiasm of my goal of quitting 😞
Thanks
Pam
WOW!!!!
That is an awesome link. I love the quote.
I am going to print and hang on the wall....
On Thu, Apr 5, 2018 at 7:29 PM, Sootie <communityadmin@becomeanex.org>
I'm a newbie at 24 days. I've tried to quitting numerous times and did actually cut down this time one week prior to my quit date. I put myself on a schedule for a week. Each day I extended the amount of time between each cigarette - 1 hour, 2 hours, 3 hours etc. until my quit date. Also, I started a smoking cessation class, nicotrol inhalers. and the Ex one week before my quit. Having a plan seemed to have helped me this time (so far). In general, I function better with structure and schedules. That's not for everyone. By the time I quit, I had eliminated the cigarettes I smoked when I was stressed, angry, happy, etc. It wasn't time for a cigarette yet! More importantly, since I was very aware of each cigarette I smoked, it made me me aware of the one's I just smoked out of habit. You probably would advise against this, but I truly focused on each cigarette I smoked and enjoyed it. So often when I smoked, my mind wandered off to what I was stressed about, what I needed to do today, what I was unhappy about, etc. Finished a cigarette before I realized it, so I had another.
The Ex has helped me tremendously. The texts I received the week prior to my quit became another part of the process and the support I needed.
Good luck on your quit!
Thank you Barbcloud
On Fri, Apr 6, 2018 at 3:48 AM, Barbscloud <communityadmin@becomeanex.org>
Hey Pam,
I am having crazy cravings today but we can and will overcome this!!!! This communities support is Awesome!!!! Feels like family!!!!
I did cut down in December before I quit in January 2016. When my last pack was gone, I had patches, slapped in on and been quit ever since. I couldn't have any cigarettes in the house. The allotment system never worked for me. I was always thinking, oh, just one more isn't going to hurt. These will be my last one. that merry-go-round for me lasted for 2 years. I finally got fed up and actually found smoking to be more of a nuisance than enjoyment and knew it was finally time. I found that using the tracking tool on here helped me a great deal Beat Your Tobacco Triggers | Guides & Tools | BecomeAnEX and filled that out for a week and printed it and slapped it on my refrigerator. that stayed up for a month and the rest is history..........