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Give and get support around quitting

Brittney4
Member

How I quit and why it worked!

Well if any of you have been reading the blogs in the forum, I'm sure you've seen something from me. I'm using this website as one of my mind blockers from smoking so I'm on here all day 😉

When I first joined this website (about a week ago) I started posting blogs and asking a ton of questions to people that had already quit to find out just what was working and what wasn't. I had posted a blog (go find it, the reply's are great) about quitting on or before my vacation. I thought if I set my quit date on a day where I had a lot going on, it would work better for me. I just needed another 'smoker' to agree with me. I got a reply that hit home. It wasn't sweet and it wasn't gentle (which was a good thing for me) it was tough love and tough support. it was what I needed to hear. I was told, 'why wait?' 'why not quit right now'. I responded to that by giving all the reasons I just couldn't do it today. I was told I was making excuses and you know what, I was. I went back and read everything I had put in there and it was all excuses. To make this long story shorter... I went straight outside, smoked a cig, came inside and I was done. I haven't picked up a cig since June 18th at 2:45pm Mountain Time.

What I want everyone to know is if you really WANT to quit... meaning there isn't a little voice in your head saying you can't or you won't make it, then you can quit and it will be so easy for you! I have only had 2 cravings since I quit and never once did I even think about picking up a cig, I just tried to turn all negative thoughts into positive ones and thought why I didn't want to smoke any more! I ended up going to bed by the way... sometimes the cravings are too strong to beat so going to bed was my best option... Plus I am very rested 😉

I wanted to say some of the things that have worked for me.

1) this website! It's great!
2) Reading
3) Chewing Gum
4) Chewing Straws
5) Going to the gym (2 times a day 🙂 )
6) Snacking on sunflower seeds
7) Going through all of my old pictures and putting them in albums
😎 Cleaning
9) Cooking large difficult meals
10) just being optamistic and keeping my irritation under control!
11) Get support from family memebers (or friends) it helps a ton!
12) drinking water/juice
13) Brushing my teeth a ton to keep the minty flavor in my mouth (food makes me want to smoke so if I can not taste food, I won't want to smoke)

I encourage everyone else who's quit or in the process to post things that have worked for them. Together maybe we can all get a few more people to quit smoking for good!!!
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jennifer55
Member

wait meant non-smoking buddies...haha so sorry. Was that a freudian slip or my mind just hasnt adjusted yet?
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jennifer55
Member

yeah I will. Just want to be careful not to eat through my cravings if you know what I mean. 🙂
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polly2
Member

LOL -- Sure, I think it really helps to have someone there who knows what you are going through and ho also is there to help keep you accountable. Every time I have quit before, I tried it on my own. This time though I can see it will be different, due to this website!! Give me a shout if you need help, want to chat, etc. and I will do the same! How about eating some baby carrots -- will that help? Not having food in your stomach will make you feel worse...Hang in thre and WAHOOOOO for both of us for making it through day one!!
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jennifer55
Member

yeah I am really struggling right now though. My roommate left one on the counter for just in case it gets too much and he left. I am trying so hard not to mess up right now:(
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jennifer55
Member

Lost the battle but refuse to lose the war! I screwed up. Didnt throw it away even though I had intended to do so. Then felt so stupid and ashamed wanted to keep it to myself but that is not going to help me by hiding my mistakes. If I dont be open about screwing up no one can help me through it. Here is to addict back at zero!
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