Hello Samantha, welcome and yea we are all addicts to nicotine, it aint a habit it is a flat out addiction that keeps us feeding poison into our body. It sounds like you are cutting back and that is good as well as figuring triggers, etc...
Yes you can quit, anyone can.
Education+determination = success,
try looking at whyquit.com for education, well organizes, easy to use, determination and attitude come from within, and success is measured one day at a time.
best to ya, RJ Free at Last 478 days after 32+yrs.