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Give and get support around quitting

Find a Quit Buddy

I am looking for a quit buddy that will have a few minutes to chat, probably in the evenings, about our journeys to becoming EXs. I am looking for another college student, and would prefer to talk to someone else who is athletic. The struggle between being an athlete and a smoker is quite the battle! Feel free to message me!! Good luck!!
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clientno9
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I am a 36 year old male. I have quit 2 days back.

I feel hungry all the time and didnt sleep well.

Other than this i am all good .

I just want to know if the cravings will evr stop

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pattikellner
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Hi!  My name is Patti.  I live in Kansas City, Ks.  I am a 53 (almost 54) year old female who has been smoking for 41 years.  I have had 6 surgeries in the last year and twice ended up with pulminary embolisms and almost died.  All surgeries were in the abdominal area and hae left me with no  muscles in my stomach. Because of no muscles my stomach is protruding and I look like I'm 7 months pregnant!  I call him "Bubba!"  I've been sent to a surgical specialist who says he can help but only if I have quit smoking for 21 days.  Well....today is 21 days until my surgery is scheduled.  I have tried the last 3 days and have not done very well.  I do not want to continue living my life with "Bubba", because of the shape I am in i stay in the house except for errands so no one sees me.  One time I was out I overhead someone talking about me saying that I was pregnant!  Horrible experience!  I am on disability because of other health reasons so I am home day in and day out.  I also have a room mate/renter who lives in my basement and he smokes. Not helping matters.  I have to quit for my health, my looks and my life.  I'm hoping this site can help to get this accomplished once and for all.  Thanks to anyone listening!! 

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monicac1219
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I've been an ex smoker for 26 hours. I'm feeling edgy and nervous a lot of the time. Taking some deep breaths seems to help a little. I smoked for 45 years. Started at age 13, and quit on my 58th birthday, 11-17-13. I have a 2 year old granddaughter and I don't want her to see my bad example as a smoker. I am tired of the stink! I hate paying the money for cigarettes when they are literally killing me. I have quit many times for about a month and then just start up again. I want it to be permanent this time.

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cameron21
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I need advice on how to stay quit. I quit a week ago, and I

have been in a ditch lately. Any suggestions?

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Please click on the "Blogs" tab above your name, to take you to the Blogs page. That is where we all hang out... not in the forums or groups.  Once there, on the left side of the page, click on the blue words, "write a blog post"  and put your question in a blog.  Don't forget to click "publish"   There are a lot of people who have a lot of quit time there... and we're always happy to help with good advice for STAYING quit.

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I also need a buddy feel free to contact ,e when ever you need too 🙂

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rbates
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We all need friends and buddies to help to get thru everything in life. Someone to talk to always helps. they can be there to give you encouragement and support. feel free to contact me.

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janbarb
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Hi, I am a 61 yr. old female from North Carolina . I have smoked for many years . Luckily I have been blessed , when my lungs are x rayed , they are always clear. God has been good to me. I am having a very serious scoliosis surgery sometime in February and the doctor said I have to quit smoking or he won't do the surgery. I have no other options than to have the surgery. My spine is curved so bad that I am all bent over . The scoliosis is starting to compromise other parts of my body. I need a partner or a group of friends who will be supportive to me. I need all the help I can get . I want to be quit by December 29th , which is my birthday. I can't think of a better birthday gift to my self than to stop smoking 🙂 I completley believe in God and know that he will give me strength to stop, but I also know that I have to do my part. Thank you and God Bless ....<3

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mmallett
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I am 53 and been a consistant smoker for 35 years. I absolutely have to quit and my husband is seriously no help at all being a smoker as well. He has no intention of quiting even though he has a heart condition so I cannot get rid of the smoking paraphinalia. I have spoken to him multiple times and he swears he is going to help me but I know from experience he wont. I would really appreciate a quit buddy who can get me through this with as little discomfort to everyone around me as posible.

This is a cold turkey adventure since I seem to be allergic to all the aids availible which puts added pressure on me. I actually did quit in September and made it all the way to Thanksgiving week, then the husband took 2 weeks vacation and it all fell apart. I know that I can do this with some support. Thanks for listening ....

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mlester71
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i am planning on quitting smoking on 12-08-13 i know its going to be hard to do i am going to need help on quitting i have tried before when i did try i get very edgy it is hard to be around me driving to work and home is the toughest

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