Amye - I think you'll be surprised. I'm on day 2, it's still hard, but I'm staying strong. My hubby still smokes, and while he's pretty good to stay away from me, I don't have the urges that I thought I would when I see him smoke. It also smells disgusting to me now. I can't say I'll never slip up, but so far, I'm staying strong. If I can do it, you can too! Ask him to respect your quit, and if he loves and supports you, he'll do it, at least that's what I told my hubby, and I think I guilted him into it. LOL!