just wondered if anyone else has really had this experience.
i am starting to notice that a good majority of the folks i used to stand and smoke with kind of resent me. or something like that. I am over two months in a doing great with the quit but occasionally i feel like i haven't talked to the people i used to smoke with in a while.....reason being, the only time we had enought time to have a conversation versus just work related conversations as needed was when we smoking, so... being confident in my quit i go and stand with the smokers while they are smoking, and out of the smoke in the wind, and try to talk to them.
half a dozen times in the last week or so, i have gone out to talk with smoking friends, and someone in the pack makes a comment like "oh yeah, you QUIT" (and it sounds like they are saying I FAILED at smoking, anger in their voice) and at this point i chime in with something like, "yeah, and if you ever want to quit, you should try www.becomeanex.org I found the people on there really helpful, and they have some coaching tools for you to use to figure out how you should quit, and I went on www.whyquit.com, which was also helpful for me becasue I did do a cold turkey quit, but both websites are awesome.........yatta yatta"
the latest comment i got (regarding me saying that the guy who came up with whyquit has been doing smoking cessation since like the seventies or something) was "Yeah, he goes out and charges people to keep them from smoking then he goes home and smokes"
i got agitated at this one (mind you this is not the only comment i have had said to me like this) and said "You know you can be hateful about it if you want to but what I am trying to do here is not preach at you about quitting smoking because ultimately it is YOUR choice but i AM trying to share with you what I found that really helped me to quit. If you don't want to hear about it then you don't have to listen."
He kinda shut up on that one.......
anyone else experience hateful smokers??? (mind you, I was NOT the one in the group who initiated a conversation about quitting, a SMOKER was.....)