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stop and smell the music

imadeer
Member
1 9 46

"A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that 1,100 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. Three minutes went by, and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, and stopped for a few seconds, and then hurried up to meet his schedule. A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping, and continued to walk. A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work. The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried, but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally, the mother pushed hard, and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on. In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money, but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition. No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the most talented musicians in the world. He had just played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100. This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and priorities of people. The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context? One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?"

9 Comments
OldBones-Larry

Thank you Ima for the great post. I have to agree that we miss a lot because we won't slow down and just pay attention to this great world that Great Spirit gave us.

Larry

Giulia
Member

This is great.  I've seen it before and forgot all about it.  Nice to see it again!

moody_9-18-13
Member

Great story, Dale.

I have no doubt that I've missed so many beautiful things in life because of addiction to nicotine. One of the most under-rated benefits to quitting is the calm and focus I didn't realize was inside me that has allowed me to slow down and enjoy life!

carol-t
Member

Great post and yes I feel I'm to tied up in worries.  I need to stop and feel the music.  Carol Turner

lindan_7-14-10

I really never took much time to witness the beauty that is within sight, within reach to so many of us. It was my beautiful, Angelina that showed me how to appreciate all that was there, right in front of me. I never miss the opportunity to smell the roses♥

Sootie
Member

Thanks for sharing this

Nyima_1.6.13
Member

When you miss the moment, you are missing your life! Thanks for posting this

TessaGrace
Member

Giulia I would like to reblog/ share this post, do you know how? Thanks 

Giulia
Member

TessaGrace Make sure you're on the blog (not just looking at it from your in box) by clicking on the title.  (If the title is up top center, then you're already in the right place.)  Then Click on "Share" top right.

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