still here

[quitter39]

Haven't checked in for a while, but still doing great, smoking is definately in my past and going to stay there!  Just having plenty of drama in my life with daughter in law, she has now convinced my son that all the lies she tells him about me treating her like dirt are true.  He believes it and says unless I give her a sincere apology, he is done with me.  I don't understand how I could raise a son to turn out like that, yea I know they have their own minds, and make their own decisions, but still hard to understand how he can believe all the stuff she comes up with!!  When she told me to my face she is a chronic liar, I lost all respect for her as a person!  Sorry, just venting again!!! 

Beautiful couple days here, doing a lot of outside projects and not having to stop to smoke, or cause I can't breathe!!!  Have a great day!!! 🙂

[JonesCarpeDiem]

why don't you get one of those handshake buzzers and make peace with her

[JonesCarpeDiem]

or hit her over the head with a breakaway bottle. she'll get it then

[SHELLY22]

I am going through the same thing with my son. They broke up for awhile and when they did I helped get a lawyer so we could see my grandson because she kept him away from me and my son. My son got half custody 1 week on 1 week off I changed my schedule so I could babysit for him because day care was expensive. I helped him out financially while he finished school. I fed him and did numerous of other things for him during their break up now they are back together and I don't really talk to him any more. She puts crap in his head about me and he believes her. My other kids don't talk to him either and can't believe how he is acting and treating me. We were very close all his life until she came into it. The sad thing is I let her move in with me when she was still in high school  because her parents were on drugs and stealing her money and pawning her stuff.  They are in their 20's now so they can live their lives but if they break up who will be the one calling me and wanting help again. Its a huge slap in the face to be treated like crap from your own children I feel your pain!

[lynette9]

Yes, it is. A huge slap in the face. However, having raised two sons myself and one who is still not speaking to me after 4 yrs, I figure it's their loss and his experience to have on his conscience.

You know, every single one of these issues are for them to grow  from. And when they realize what they are really doing, perhaps they'll wake up and smell the coffee.

Hang in, honey. We get it.

[jojo29]

 SONSSSS!!   I THINK THEY KNOW THE REAL TRUTH BUT THEY NO MOMS ARE THERE FOREVER NO MATTER WHAT AND A WIFE WILL WALK AWAY AS FAST AS SHE CAN, I HAVE A SON WHO HAD THIS GIRL AND WE DIDNT TALK EAITHER B/C OF HER, WEN  THEY BROKE UP, GUESS WHO HE CAME TO SEE LMAO WOOHOOO YEP, MOMMYYYYYY LOL. DONT WORRY, HE KNOWS UR THERE, HER HES NOT TO SURE ABOUT. LIKE LYNETTE SAYS, THEY WILL WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE, AND I HOPE ITS NICE AND STRONG TOO ,:)) JOANNE.