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"Congratulationed Insight!"

FLORIDALJT
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Happy Sunday everyone. Having some effects here today in S.W. Florida from Tropical storm Emily but, not too much. I like a good storm now & then. I want to share a story with you that I found to be very insightful and I know most of you will understand it. I was at a friends house the other day and they had a few people over for a BBQ. We all used to smoke together so when my host was going to the store he asked me if I wanted him to get me cigarettes. I said no thanks that I had quit. He left and another guy, whom I don't know at all (just met him once) jumped up & said WOW congratulations to you, I'm so proud of you, I know how difficult it can be to quit. So how long has it been? I told him and he just kept making such a huge deal out of the fact that I had quit it was almost embarassing. So, my other friend, returns from the store & everyone goes outside to smoke......Including the guy that was congratulating me so heartedly! I had thought for sure he was a non smoker too and then it dawned on me that most people that smoke don't want to. Anyone that says they enjoy it(Like I used to say) hasn't reached their personal bottom yet with nicotene addiction & perhaps doesn't even have a clue yet how binding addiction is. Most people that smoke "Wish" they did not. Most people that smoke,wish they were more like you---the non smoker. But "Wishing" doesn't make it so. I wish I was a millionaire! haha. But, you know what I really am rich. Rich with knowledge, health and the incredible support of friends & family & even strangers that wish they didn't smoke. So, anyone out there that has found their way to this site----Know right this minute, that you can become an ex smoker any second that you make the decision. I have a best friend in hawaii, that is a heavy smoker & everytime that I quit she would congratulate me and then a few days later, say 'I liked you better when you smoked!" I feel so badly for her because she is soooo very stuck in her addiction that I can't even discuss it with her. I love her dearly & I will be there for her when she is dying from her addiction, cause it is sure to happen. God bless you all. I am proud to be here for all of you.

6 Comments
c2q
Member

Me too. Great story; I can remember when I was that guy, not so long ago.

ex-kel
Member

 

Thanks for sharing. Interesting how people act when their on either side of the fence. It sounds like that guy had some envy in him. Congratulations on your quit! Ù©(●̮̮̃•Ìƒ)Û¶  I love this site. Keeps me going strong! Very supportive! 🙂 Have a good day.

 

jawidge
Member

Excellent Post.  I was fortunate in that  most everyone I know had already quit, but it does become challenging dealing with the smokers attitude in those remaining.  It does start to get better the second you quit, it just doesn't seem that way. 

Ex_Nancy
Member

Yep, that guy at the party envied you....AND I hope your friend in Hawaii quits by your good example...

michael146
Member

I was that guy too.. and the others are right, that's pure ENVY! I was telling Heather last night about someone from work that seemed like they were going to be a lifelong smoker...But one day I noticed that he wasnt joining the rest of us on our smoke breaks.  I asked him about it, and he said that he had quit two weeks earlier!  I was FLABBERGASTED! I congratulated him over and over, and asked him how he had done it.. he said that he had just decided one day to stop! I could not believe what he was saying. I had it so deeply in my head that quitting was going to be so horrible, that I couldn't believe it could even be done..  I don't think I could have done it cold turkey with no preperation like that guy from work, but if you use this site, and read the material that the elders recommend, it really isnt so bad! So now that I know it doesn't have to be horrible, or impossible, I'm telling everyone HOW EASY IT IS TO QUIT IF YOU DO IT RIGHT! Most smokers have been brainwashed think that quitting is like sawing off a limb! Tell everyone that its not terrible..quitting is AWESOME!

Strudel
Member

Louise - Your blog reminded me of how I felt when people would tell me they had quit - back when I was still smoking. I would be amazed!!! My goodness - how could they have done that??!! It was almost like some mystical, magical thing must of happened to them - because I just felt it was so impossible!! That was before I came here and began reading blogs - like yours - which showed me that it was very possible!! Great blog - thanks!!