so.... quitting seems to have been the easy part.
(i would've kicked myself a year ago if i had said that)
I have been an ex-smoker for almost a full year now. I haven't smoked, I haven't cheated, I haven't consumed nicotine since I quit. I really honestly QUIT.
The hard part: I have been so depressed since I quit (yes, this might be quickly fixed by a trip to the doc ans some meds, which I have my doubts about taking anyway, problem with that scenario being....like so many other Americans, no health insurance, no funding for healthcare).
I am trying to self-medicate with b-stress-relief vitamins and exercise but, I AM ME. I am distractable. I exercise for a while then I don't one day then the next thing I know i have been glued to the couch every moment I have been home for weeks, and...gained ten more pounds (i.e. self-knock to self-esteem....tumble, tumble, tumble, here we go down the depression hole again).
My friends (who are not in this state) miss me. They tell me so, and I am glad to hear from them. And then really upset that (especially since losing ANOTHER job) I can't do ANYTHING about the fact that I have no way to come up with funding, or time, to go visit them.
I have tried to make friends in this state but, let's put it this way, I THOUGHT I had trust issues before and since moving here I have found that I am TOO trusting with people and do not guard nyself enough. Hard to make friends when the private things you share with people who you think are your friends get back to town before you do, and people who haven't met you before can tell you about your personal life the next day....probably even saying too much on this site but if I don't say it somewhere i JUST might blow up.
so but anyway.
Lately, something one of my former co-workers said has been ringing in my ears. He told me about how he FINALLY quit smoking, and (long story short) a few months later his wife finally got him to go in to his doctor and his doctor told him to start smoking again. They had tried a couple anti-depressant medications and theyjust didn't work for him, and his doctor explained that for some people the medications just don't satisfy the receptors in the brain that are or had been triggered by nicotine. (Happy making brain receptors)
I don't want, wait no...I won't smoke again, but jeez I am tired of feeling like crap, a year....natural herbal (legal) suggestions are welcome, and any advice on teaching myself to continue to do things daily would be nice too....
(((((i need a hug))))))