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Share your quitting journey

Who did you touch!!

pir8fan
Member
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Who's life did you touch today? How did you change the future for someone you don't even know? Do you know? Odds are you don't! One of the miracles of this site is the way we share info with each other. Who does not love that feeling when someone tells you that something you said or did made their life better? There is an instant bond, and you want more of that feeling. It is the "Collateral Kindness" I have spoken of. Here we occasionally get the chance to get that feedback!

But, what about when you are not here? What small act of kindness did you show someone today? Who else saw it?  That lady that you smiled at and said good morning to, what burdens did she carry? Had she lost all faith in human nature? Did you restore that? Was she planning something tragic? Did you prevent that? I don't know! Who else did you come in contact with today? How did you change their life? Are the people you met today better off because they met you, or worse? What seeds did you sow today? How do feel about reaping what those seeds produce?

Did you give everyone you met today the best you that you were capable of? I hope you did!! I hope I did!! We are not going to get much feedback from the rest of the world. It has been said that the great Joe DiMaggio was once ask why he hustled so hard on a play late in his career when his team was way ahead. He replied by waving to the crowd and saying "There may be someone there who has never seen me play before". I pledge to give everyone the best me I can be from this day forward! And i will not smell like smoke!

10 Comments
suzanne-bridgeland

I really liked what you had to say today...I hope that I touched someone...I have discovered that often just little things that we don't even think about make a difference to someone...so I am glad I am a non-smoker so I can live that many more days to touch people even if I don't know about it!  God bless you...keep touching people out there in the world...and making at least one person's day better somehow...today it was mine!!!!! Thank you!!!

kate8
Member
Wow!You really gave me something to think about. Thank you!
time-to-change

I have made people laugh today, I answer phones and deal with a lot of people in a small rural farming community selling tractors.  I like going up and helping people more now, I'm confidant I don't stink like an ashtray!  Life is so beautiful and it's so wonderful to share it!  Unnoticed simple acts of kindness makes the days we live in real. 

Plus honestly, if you walk around with a smile on your face people wonder what you are up to!!!!

onelasttime
Member

Great blog Tommy, I try real hard to help others any way I can , a hello, a smile, open the door a honest compliment a hug a shouulder to cry on or to be a friend to laugh with I think we all effect each others behavior and the world would be a better place of everyone felt the way you described..thanks Tommy for opening our eyes..Deb.

kathys
Member

If we put others before ourselves, we will always touch someone in some way. It is the gift of giving that gives us so much back even when we ask for nothing in return.

time-to-change

I should add, all the people here who share their struggle, so no one is alone is alone, makes all the difference in the world. The wonderful reminder is all of you folks that take the time to read and encourage, it's make the road less a burden and a wonderful journey.  A journey to a brighter, fresher way of life!!!!

THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR BEING THERE!!!

kathys
Member

I feel the same as you do Sheri. You people surely have touched my life. Im very thankful for finding such good people. Love to all of you.

Thomas3.20.2010

Here's another one that comes to mind:

I keep my ideals because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart"

- Anne Frank

daisy6
Member

That beautiful soul of yours is showing dear Tommy : )

tcollinskeo
Member

Tag, your it!  You touched me today, and look how far reaching that can be.........several days later!  Always love your post, and I needed your words of wisdom today.

Thanks for always sharing your heart with us.

Hugs  & Prayers

Terrie