Okay, tonight my blog is going to be slightly ANGRY!!! My husband and I let his cousin move in about four months ago. He knew I quit smoking and how hard it has been for me to stay quit! This morning he came into my livingroom as he always does before he leaves for work ! Only today he decided to walk in with a cigarette! I was livid! Nicely, I asked him to please leave the room, extinguish the cigarette and then he could return. He looks at me and sais, why should I have to "suffer" because you want to try to quit smoking AGAIN! What? Really? I flipped out! Yes, flipped! My words exactly: this, my friend, is my house. I gave you plenty of notice that their will be no more smoking in my home long ago! I knew you were smoking in your room but didn't say anything because it isn't near my downstairs, which is where I live. Also, I do not need to ask permission to quit smoking in MY HOME!! I worked very hard to clean my house and all of the nasty nicotine on the walls, furniture, etc. He continued to stand there with a lit cigarette, arguing with me that he shouldn't have to smoke out in the cold. I was so mad I began to cry. Suddenly, my husband stood up, grabbed the cigarette out of Scott's hand and took it into the bathroom and flushed it. He came back into the room and told Scott, if you ever speak to my wife in that tone you will be picking yourself off the floor! He said it's real simple, no smoking in our home and you can end the smoking in your room too because it is still my home that I pay for! My wife and I chose life, and now we are going to enjoy it smoke and drama free! MY HERO,! I cannot tell you how wonderful he is! Oh' and Scott appoligized and now smokes in his car when he feels the need. Haha! As I said, it was kind of a violent blog and we don't usually conduct ourselves in that manner, but this incident just took the cake. He has been a true nuiscence from day one. He is rude and disrespectful and the sooner he finds a home, the better. Until then, I think staying in our own corners is probebly a good idea! My quit is still going well! Hope you all are doing well too! XoXo!
