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Carcher1
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I’m really trying to quit vaping. I’m struggling every day

11 Comments
FusingCypress
Member

The struggle is real. Just keep pushing yourself and try not to think of your experience as a sruggle but a triumph. Sometimes we need suffering, pain, and realization of what we are going through to change and become a better person. Every second...minute...hour...day...month...year that goes by and you're not seeking that habit you are literally changing your life for the better and not seeking that instant gratification makes you stronger in all aspects of your life.

JonesCarpeDiem

Self talk is your greatest ally.

When you think of vaping say "I don't do that anymore."

It will retrain your thinking and keep you on your path to freedom.

Barbscloud
Member

Welcome.  What have you done so far?   Educating yourself about nicotine addiction and having a quit plan can help you be successful.  My EX Plan | BecomeAnEX   We've had lots of vapers recently--we're all nicotine addicts.  Pick a date and jump on board.  We're here to support you on your journey.

Barb

jonimarie
Member

As dale says Self talk is your greatest ally. 

It is about developing the ability to develop patience while taking one thought and turning it into another

That takes some work in the beginning but soon you can become a master at it

Keep it simple and do not spend time analyzing , switch the thought and move on

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Quitting is very hard but instead of thinking of it as a struggle consider it a challenge that you are able to meet,  It is going to require discipline and commitment.  It is suggested that you wean yourself from the vape by reducing the amount of mgs and times that you vape. Tell yourself to wait a little longer. Gradually use less to break away from it.   It really takes the commitment never to touch it again no matter how bad you feel because it gets better in time. You have to go through the withdrawal like any other drug.  To make it easier you have to find distractions that you may enjoy other than vaping. 101 Things to Do Instead of Smoke As far as your girlfriend.    It takes about 3-5 days for most of the nicotine to be out of your body depending on your usage but the mental adjustment makes take longer.  You have to be willing to do whatever is necessary.  

Just like the lack of research surrounding the dangers of vaping in general, there are very few resources available specifically for those who are looking to quit vaping. On the bright side, however, the process for quitting smoking is almost identical to the one for quitting vaping, with the added benefit of being able to fully control the amount of nicotine you use, depending on the e-cig you are using. @Quitting E-cigarettes | Guides & Tools | BecomeAnEX 

 

AnnetteMM
Member

Hi! Is this your first post here? Have you done any of the reading? Tell us more about what's going on.

YoungAtHeart
Member

Welcome to our community!

Although primarily a smoking cessation site, I have seen a huge increase in the number of people coming for help to break free from vaping. Research suggests nicotine may be as addictive as heroin and cocaine. Here is a great article with information about the products: https://www.nbcnews.com/health/vaping/vaping-101-what-know-about-e-cigs-addiction-illnesses-n1054981...   There is information on this site:  https://www.becomeanex.org/quitting-e-cigarettes.

E-cigarette users can get more nicotine than they would from a tobacco product — extra-strength cartridges are available, or the e-cigarette’s voltage can be increased to get a greater hit of the substance. I understand some pods equal the nicotine in a pack of cigarettes. Because it is available to you most anywhere, anytime, I believe it might be more difficult from which to break free than tobacco products - but it CAN be done!

Nicotine addiction is nicotine addiction - no matter the delivery device - and how to beat any of them is about the same. Every time you read :"cigarette" in the information I will give you, just sub "Juul" or “vape,” or “device.”   The one thing different I would recommend is that you first start to reduce the nicotine content of the pods.  Start with a lesser amount in, like, one in every four, then three, etc. until you are only using the smallest amount, or reduce the amount of nicotine in the pods over time That way the physical withdrawal should be more manageable. You might find useful information, as well, here: https://truthinitiative.org/research-resources/quitting-smoking-vaping/quitting-e-cigarettes.

I recommend that you educate yourself on what nicotine does to your body and mind To that end, I suggest Allen Carr's “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking.” . Vaping was not a concern when this was written, so you will need to sub “vape”as necessary. This is an easy and entertaining read which can be found online or at your local library. If you do nothing else to get ready for your quit, please do give this a read. Here is a video to inform you further about nicotine addiction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpWMgPHn0Lo&feature=youtu.be.

After you have completed the recommended reading, it will be time to make an informed choice of the quit aid, if any, you will use. If you go that route, I personally recommend the aids that don't let the addict control the dose such as the available prescription drugs or the patch. If used properly, gum, lozenges and inhalers are fine, but they need to be used only as a last resort after you have tried to delay and distract.   I have seen folks become addicted to them if they substitute them for every cigarette they used to smoke - just trading one addiction for another.  You need to start out with a plan to reduce use of them over time - which the patch does by decreasing the dose contained in them..  For the gum, you can start by cutting each piece in half, then in quarters, then sub regular gum of the same flavor in between, adding more and more regular gum.  For the lozenge, you need to start subbing a mint in between to begin, increasing the number of them over time.

The idea is to change up your routines so the vaping associations are reduced.  Drink your coffee with your OTHER hand in a place different from where you vaped. Maybe switch to tea for a bit.  If you always had that first puff with your coffee, try putting your tennies on right out of bed, going for a quick walk, then taking your shower and THEN your coffee! Rearrange the furniture in the areas you used to vape so the view is different. Take a different route when you are out and about so you aren't driving by your vaping supply shop. Take a quick walk at break time instead of vaping.


You need to distract yourself through any craves.  You can take a bite out of a lemon (yup - rind and all), put your head in the freezer and take a deep breath of cold air, do a few jumping jacks, go for a brisk walk or march in place, play a computer game.  Keep a cold bottle of water with you from which to sip. Don't let that vaping thought rattle around in your brain unchallenged. Sometimes you need to quit a minute or an hour at a time.  You will need to be disciplined in the early days to distract yourself when a crave hits.    Get busy!  Here is a link to a list of things to do instead of vape if you need some fresh ideas:
 https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/Youngatheart.7.4.12-blog/2013/02/25/100-things-to-do-instea...
The conversation in your head in response to the "I want to vape" thought needs to be, "Well, since I have decided not to do that anymore, what shall I do instead for the three minutes this crave will last?"  Then DO it.  You will need to put some effort into this in the early days, but it gets easier and easier to do.

Stay close to us here and ask questions when you have them and for support when you need it. We will be with you every step of the way!


 Nancy

sweetplt
Member

Hello and Welcome to Ex’s Carcher1 

You received some great advice from people above me...do the work...and set a quit date...prepare for that day like no other...keep close to here for support...most of all, make Day 1 ... Day Won...keep us posted on your quit day...~ Colleen 300 DOF 

Carcher1
Member

I have a quit date for a goal of Nov 1st. For today I’m just trying to push through each craving

Barbscloud
Member

That's great.   Think about moving it sooner.  There's nothing to loose, but much to gain!

Barb

sweetplt
Member

How are you doing Carcher1 with reading the material that was suggested to you? ~ Colleen 301 DOF