A slip does not have to mean relapse . The choice is ours .
Still doing well with my quit .. I had to take a break from Ex which really helped my thinking about turning back and undoing my quit . I spent time untying the knot of lies that I'm not good enough or smart enough or the million other lies I believe .
Sometimes all it takes is to remove yourself for yourself because you matter .
Sometimes I wonder if others help others so much because they think they themselves don't matter and see the potential and value in others more than they see in themselves . Sometimes I see that in myself .. lol told ya I want to be honest and transparent . Maybe what people see as confidence is not confidence at all .
The break has solidified my quit more . I could step back away from the well meaning opinions and advise of others and make my own decisions with much more clarity . Glad I took the opportunity .
It was good couple days . I went and did more singing ( which btw was a disaster , but totally fun .
If you are a perfectionist , let loose and let go . Live today stress free of the perfectionism in your life that is holding you back ball and chain . We only have this moment to live . In an instant everything you have can be taken away.
