So I managed to get through today BARELY...........let me tell you how my day went mmmm k I need to get it off my chest anyway.
1. I GOT A 3 DAY EVICTION NOTICE!
Before I went back to college, I have been a housewife. Everything was okay except around christmas we got behind a lot. Our food stamps also got cut off too! Even though it was only 40 miserable dollars, I made that stretch! So we talked to the apartment managers in March, they told us instead of 470.....pay 400 a month (200 every 2 weeks) and everything was okay. Well on the 9th, the main water line busted and we didn't have water for 2 days. So management told us to pay 160 instead of 140 since it wasn't our fault we had no water. Our whole building had no water.
THEN TODAY BOOM YOU HAVE TO PAY OVER 1,000 DOLLARS OR BE OUT! Yet when my husband called management "oh you're okay just start paying 300 every two weeks" I'M GOING TO GET THIS STUPID THING IN WRITING THAT WAY IF WE DO GET PUT TO COURT I'M GOING TO SHOW THE JUDGE THAT WE AGREED TO THIS AGREEMENT!
2. I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO CONTINUE GOING TO COLLEGE!
Starting April 6th, I started school and for 2013-2014 I was okay I got financial aid right? Well supposedly I had defaulted student loans in the past.......I never knew about AND GET THIS THEY NEVER REPORTED THEM AS DEFAULTED UNTIL APRIL 28TH! So the rest of my college is up to me to pay and I'm in a loan rehab program but I can't even get a default clearance letter until I continue paying for 6 months.......then the rest of my financial aid will be available. If I decide to pay FULL TUITION for 6 months, that'll be 447 dollars every two weeks.
I FEEL LIKE FALLING APART TODAY........YES I DIDN'T SMOKE AND I'M PROUD OF THAT, well kind of but I feel like literally everything we have is falling apart. I love it, my husband's family keeps saying oh you knew those student loans were your responsibility blah blah blah. HOW DID I KNOW WHEN THEY NEVER CONTACTED ME! I WENT THROUGH ALL MY PAPERWORK AND NOTHING ABOUT STUDENT LOANS.....I NEVER GOT STUPID PHONE CALLS......MY TAXES WERE NEVER GARNISHED OR NOTHING SO HOW DID I KNOW? HOW DID I KNOW THEY BECAME DEFAULTED UNTIL APRIL 28TH?
This might be quit related that I'm falling apart but Idk right now.....................all I'm doing tonight is crying and praying that I hang on. As soon as my husband came home I went off on him too, why? Idk! I went off on him for something stupid..........dinner at sister in laws. I don't like her, I don't get along with her, she's called me everything from a bad wife to my clothes show no pride..so I didn't go. He did. Personally I just want to run and hide in a ball anyway.
Day 1 DONE
