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New attitude!

ksylr
Member
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Something happened last night while I was sleeping and I have no idea what it was but I woke up with a totally new attitude about everything! Last night him and I had a fight again but I tried my best not to fight with him, he yelled alot and I just tried to be civil. When I woke up this morning instead of being down and depressed about everything going on, I decided that life is what you make it. You decide if you are going to have a good or a bad day! I understand sometimes bad things happen during the day but you decide if it is going to completely ruin your day. Today for me I decided is going to be a good day! My head is held high and I am feeling like a new woman! I am woman here me ROAR!!! LOL Hope everyone has as good of a day as I am going to have! ❤️ you guys!

10 Comments
krystal-beavers

Great attitude... Keep it up... You sound like you are feeling much more confident.. KUDOS to you....

aztec
Member

Atittude is everything they say

If this was your last day on earth, it sounds like you will be Happy and make the most of it. Great choice.

Stay postive and pro active instead of re active. you will stay out of chaos that way.

choose how you will respond, with love, I don't know your circumstances it sounds like you are in a divorce. I have had a couple of them.

I prayed after my last one for G-d to give me the desires of my heart that He wanted me to have and I met my love of my life 14 years ago.

maybe you can borrow that prayer it worked for me on alot of levels.

Lots of love and light to you and yours

aztec

glad you are posting and staying strong!

JonesCarpeDiem

WOO HOO

Next time he yells just put your hands over your ears and say "I can't hear you"

shill57957
Member

Yes Attitude is EVERYTHING.  A positive attitude will get you miles farther than a negative one.  It is a great feeling to feel empowered and happy.  Looks like you got it. Hold on to it.  Yay for you!!!!!!!   🙂 

jim117
Member

Hey ksylr

Spme one told me that if you are trying to change someone's actons you are fighting a war that can't bee won. What you can change is the way you react to his actons.

Hope this helps.

BobbyMaynard
Member

The folks above already said it very well. We can not always control what happens in our lives and we sure can't control other people. We can control how we react to things, people and situations. You are headed in the right direction. Keep moving.

Bobby

Kathryn16
Member

Keep that positive attitude. By George I think she's got it.

ksylr
Member

😃 Thanks everyone I feel great! I got a good night sleep last night and I am becoming happier everyday! I ❤️ you guys thank you soo much

danirn784
Member

A good attitude is the secret to total success!  Life is 10% what happens, 90% how we react to it.  You can't control other people or what happens, but you can control you and it's a much better feeling than the feeling of being out of control.  And a good night's sleep can change everything... I sleep much better since I quit smoking!

Danielle

john.e
Member

GREAT ATTITUDE = SUCCESS

CONGRATULATIONS ON BEING SUCCESSFUL!