My husband decided he wanted to quit smoking on his birhday. So I decided to quit with him. We have quit once before during our marriage and lasted 5 months but then went right back to smoking after a night out with friends. I told him I do not want to go through the pain, the depression, the weight gain all over again unless we quit for good. We talked about it a lot and by our quit date we were very excited. It has now been 25 days since we've had a cig and I think that's awesome, but my husband is in a deep depression. He won't talk to me, we don't go anywhere, he just comes home from work, sits on the couch and watch tv and sleeps.....for hours. When we do talk he is so surley to me that all I want to do is get away from him. I have started coming home from work, fixing dinner right away, cleaning up the kitchen, and then I escape into the den with my computer. I just can't stand to look at his grumpy face! I know that when you quit you need support but I quit too and I get no support. Every day I wake up and I look at the sky and I breath the fresh air and I am so glad that our clothes no longer smell like an ashtray, our house no longer stinks when you walk in to it, there are no overflowing ash trays to constantly empty.....and the money...wow....we were spending a fortune!! Why can't he see some of those things?
Sorry, this is my first blog and all I do is complain. I really really do see the wonderful benefits of not smoking. I took my dog for a walk last night and I absolutely loved feeling so good! The air was so fresh, and I didn't get out of breath! We walked and we walked and I didn't want to go home!
Can anyone give me some ideas on how to get my husband back?? I honestly love him and I miss him very much. 😞