I am terrified of loosing my Dad.
He is a smoker.
He has smoked for 40 + years.
His arteries in his neck are 100% blocked and inoperable.
This year he suffored 3 consecutive heart attacks.
3 years ago he had a massive heart attack, one they call a "widowmaker". My Brother thankfully was there and gave him C.P.R. In the ambulence he died 3 times.
I am terified of loosing my Dad.
I cannot make him quit. I will not judge him for his choice. They say it is quality not quantity, of life. I am just so scared to loose him! I need him! He may never meet his Grandchildren and they will never know my beautiful, escentric and loving Father. I am encouraging him however, gently because I do not know another way.