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Morning, Sunshines.

shelise
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Hey fellow Ex-ers. Everybody hanging in there, I hope.  I'm just beginning Day 14 and am looking forward to having two weeks behind me. (I'm also looking forward to not needing an apple danish, a handful of trail mix, and a hard candy all before 7AM, but that's another post.) I've read that most of my physical symptoms will be gone soon and I'll be left to face only my wee little brain. As anyone who knows me can tell you, my brain is not exactly a powerhouse so hopefully I won't give myself too much of a problem.

OK, now I'm talking in circles. But that's OK. This insanity is temporary - quitting is FOREVER!

First romantic evening for hubby and I tomorrow night. We were gifted a night of babysitting, movie tickets, and a dinner for two for Christmas and we're using them this weekend. It will feel funny to be out alone together and NOT share a bottle of wine, order two mixed drinks each, and clutch each other giddily in the cold while puffing away down the street to the car...but we will do it.  We can still clutch each other, I suppose. 😃

We made the decision to quit drinking for the year 2010, both to make our quits easier and to see "how the other half lives."  You know, those people who say..."Oh, I better not have another beer. Don't want to get drunk."  I've always wondered..."Why not? What's so special about not getting drunk?"

So now we'll know.  I'm sure it will be fascinating.

BUT we'll have a lot more time on our hands - let's see, there's the actual drinking time on Friday night, the sleeping-late recovery the next morning,  the sitting around eating sandwiches and watching reality television all day to recover, and the doing of it all over again Saturday night. None of that will be necessary anymore. Who knows, maybe I'll be nodding over crocheted oven mitts and hubby will be sleeping 14 hours a day by summer time, but maybe we'll do something really cool like renovate the house or take guitar lessons instead.  Anything's possible.

"When patterns are broken, new worlds emerge." ~Tuli Kupferberg

4 Comments
edith2
Member

You might want to try some AA meetings to help you stop drinking.  You don't have to be alcoholics to go to a meeting.  All you need is a desire to quit.

Congradulations on the beginning of your 14th day!  That's fantastic!  Being a non-smoker is wonderful.  The benefits are so great and they keep on coming and they get bigger the longer you've quit!

dawn4
Member

Congratulations on 14 days, Shelise.

babyimaboo
Member

Sounds you and hubby has got this thing with an open window...... Wow, I am so happy for you guys!!! I can definitely understand where you are coming from in having more time on your hand.

I've so still got to find ways to occupy that time as I'm going through a smoker boot camp into quitting, I have begun to discipline my action of smoking, harnessing the cravings and deciphering what triggers me to want to. I'm getting down to it all and I’m starting to see that boredom, and the habit of doing it is going to be the bull’s horns. If possible keep me post in your finding of ways and ideas of kill the boredom in partner with the habit.

I’m congratulating you in advance on your next 14 days because the worst………. is over.

“Stand up to you obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have”~ Norman Vincent Peale

judy41
Member

Proud of you and for you!