Hey smokefree friends, I am not in a good place mentally right now and my mind is going to...smoking. I just checked my phone messages and realized that I did not show up somewhere today that I had committed to be. I let a lot of people down and feel like an incompetent lazy-@ss who probably looks like a jerk. I am really wallowing in self-loathing and some self-pity right now. I'm sorry to subject you to that. It is painful for me too.
I feel like I am behind on everything. I am already behind in school, I have not learned as much at my new job as I would have wanted to, I haven't called several of my friends in a long time, I don't make enough recovery meetings, I haven't taken the time to write. I have started working out like crazy and I'm not losing weight because I'm still eating too much.
There is so much that needs to be done and so many fences to mend and I feel like I am just too tired to do that. And for some reason being self-destructive seems like my most attractive option right now. Not tackling these problems that seem overwhelming, just creating another one and saying f- it.
I know I haven't been keeping up with this website as much lately, and that's another thing I wish I could stay on top of. It's like I have a picture in my head of this super-happy, healthy, nonsmoking, nondrinking, attractive girl who is a great student, a good friend, a hard worker, blahblahblah... and sometimes I really feel like that! And then there are times like now where I see that I'm a million miles short. And my mind is saying, "no, don't reach out to anyone," but here I am.