Sorry I haven't written back to all my wonderful friends the past couple days.
I just recently found out that one of my sisters has lung cancer. She has cancer of her esophagus and in her lymph nodes as well.
It's ironic because I was feeling so good about my quitting ( she is only 7 years older )
It's sad because my family is so messed up and I was out of the loop for awhile (not by my choice) and I found out from my niece on Facebook!!
I am devastated because I wouldn't wish this on anyone, not even my worst enemy. I am so messed up about what I should do right now. I love my entire family no matter what! I just backed off because that was the only thing for me to do. When I think of them all, I only remember the good times and the good things we all used to do together and it really breaks my heart. I tried to not let all this shit get to me, but it's true what they say that you can run but you can't hide.
I know that what's going on w/ my sister is not good, is it? She just had some radiation on her lymph nodes today because her face was so swollen she could barely see out of her eyes. She had been having back pain and it turns out that is from cancer too. My one brother who talks to me all of the time told me what's going on w/ her. I want to call her but I am not sure it would be a good thing right now. Maybe I"ll send her a card or something? I don't know what I should do,,,if things were normal, I'd already be up there by her side. This is so messed up.
Well, thanks for listening. I don't know where my head is right now. I know this is not about me,,,it's about her and the rest of her life.
Hugs 😞
Diane