and I'm going to do this again. I quit then started back - just the same old endless cycle. I am embarassed and ashamed that I smoke and I can't seem to shake it. No one smokes anymore and NC is putting a ban on all smoking in restaurants/bars come January. There are endless commercials on tv about not smoking. I am a closet smoker - sitting on my back steps, alone, drinking coffee or alcohol - contemplating the world - all the really crappy stuff that makes me feel bad. Mostly now it is the shame of being a smoker/ex smoker/smoker off and on again. I've once more made the committment, but will this be like all the other times?