I am so sorry I haven't been on here very much lately to congratulate all the recent milestones, or respond to desparation as the newbies begin your quit. I have been going thru so much lately myself & have been selfish with my time & emotions. We just placed my 89 yr old mom in an ALF nearby. It is very nice, many activities to do. She is not adjusting well at all. THIS is when I want to smoke! I know it won't make anything any better, ut I am so sad. She cries to come home & I cry beause I want the best care for her. I am an emotional wreck! So, please accept my apology for any news I have missed. I don't really know how to handle this problem, but me & my 2 other siblings must come to a solution, soon.