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I Have a Dream!

Thomas3.20.2010
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"Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." 

As we Celebrate Martin Luther King Day, we celebrate the BEST of ourselves. We reach out for our potential BEST just as he had in his short, enlightened inspiring life! Dr. King was intelligent, yes and he was charismatic but more than that he had Faith in his fellow human being and the dream that dwelled in his mind!

While we were smoking, we had a dream that seemed so far fetched - a dream for FREEDOM! We had an inkling of our potential selves, a memory of the FREEDOM we relinquished by taking that first puff and that ever since, most of us for decades, was being puffed away with addiction.

That simple little thought made us strive for FREEDOM - the FREEDOM to be as Our Creator wishes we would be and knows we can be! Many of us have looked under every crook and cranny our our minds for the means to gain our FREEDOM until we found the PRIZE!

A few others were able to find the way more directly. And most of us are still searching but refuse to give up! We each had our own motivations for this quest for FREEDOM but what we had in common is the goal! We were motivated by the fact that "a lie cannot live" and we knew on some level (some more conscious than others) that we were living a lie. 

 To reach that goal takes a lot of human fortitude.  As MLK said, "Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our FREEDOM."

Too many people see quitting as an event, just as today's celebration is an event and back to "business as usual" tomorrow! But quitting brings change and change is not inevitable! We must straighten our backs and work our quit journey each and every day. That's a BIG ticket so it can only be done one day at a time, giving just for today commitment, focus, and determination - keeping always our eyes on the prize - FREEDOM and remember these words, "I know, somehow, that only when it is dark enough can you see the stars."

Many of us have EXperienced the very personal loss of one or more family member, friend, loved one due to the wicked consequences of smoking related illness. It's absolutely devastating! And some of us have been struck down, debilitated, even left disabled, by smoking related illness. I happen to be one of them. If at times, our voices are shrill, it's because we wish to spare you!

We want you to see past the Addictive lie that "smoking is a harmless vice", to know that smoking related illness is very real! But life isn't about not dying - it's about living well! Again, MLK said, "Like anybody, I would like to live a long life. Longevity has its place. But I'm not concerned about that now. I just want to do God's will. And He's allowed me to go up to the mountain. And I've looked over. And I've seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you. But I want you to know tonight, that we, as a people, will get to the promised land!" he said those famous words on April 3, 1963. On the next day, he was assassinated.

I won't begin to speak for the other elders who continue to visit this site - I speak for myself alone, but these words perfectly EXpress my thoughts when I come here again and again and do my best to share my DREAM of FREEDOM for all of you, for all people caught up in the lie of Nicotine Addiction!

Yes, folks, this struggle we are in is just as life and death, just as critical to the dignity of living as MLK's! And yes, I gladly give the BEST of myself when I come here and ask, "Wouldn't you like to live in FREEDOM? I, Thomas, have seen the Promised Land and believe that we, as a Community, will get there!

Join me! I will walk beside you and together we will go up the mountain called FREEDOM!"

9 Comments
elvan
Member

Magnificent, Thomas, I share your dream of freedom for everyone.

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Bravo, thank you for not being afraid to be honest or shrill.  This is another great blog.  Thank you for having the creativity and mindset to relay FREEDOM.  Kudos to you again my friend.  I am honored to have you as a friend. 

bonniebee
Member

I too share your dream and have now seen the promised land of freedom from smoking and the addiction to nicotine ! It was and remains  my # 1 reason for quitting.... to be free as my Creator intended me to be !

I will stay strong and carry on ! Thank you Thomas for this wonderful blog on MLK day !!!

It is not just a dream anymore for me but is now my reality !!!!!

For all of you newbies I pray your dream of freedom stands and is your reality !

LouiseR
Member

Thanks Thomas!

TerrieQuit
Member

Thank you for a very well thought out and sincere blog, Thomas. I realize that I have only caught a whiff of freedom at this point, but I love it and will keep it! Great day for a great blog! You included some very good quotes in there! Have a very good day, my friend!

Terrie  19  DOF

cpsono
Member

Awww, Thomas, you brought tears to my eyes.  Thank you for a beautifully written and timely blog.  I'm so grateful for you and many other elders on this site.  It truly is a gift to be here!   CP 236 DOF

Kimshine
Member

Wonderful blog, Thomas!

Thank you for coming here as an elder to help all of us reach our own personal freedoms!

I want to live as my authentic self and smoking has no role in that.

rebeccaj.11-13-2014
I am walking right beside you Thomas! I love my FREEDOM!!!
blaquequeen83
Member

LIVING SMOKE FREE IS THE LIFE FOR ME!!

About the Author
63 years old. 20 year smoker. 11 Years FREE! Diagnosed with COPD. Choosing a Quality LIFE! It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. -Galatians 5:1