To preface this: It doesn't make me want to smoke when he smokes. I have quit long enough (even with smoking the occassional relapse cig here and there) to be ok with that. It's quite the contrary, when he smokes it saddens me and he stinks when he comes in the house. He said he would think about it. I know that is the best I can ask for right now. I just hope he really is thinking about it. Are there any suggestions to get spouses on board? I am hoping he will join me on this journey. I feel like I am remembering me again. It's as though I have been lost for a while and I am now here my mind is new again. It is actually a pretty cool thing to be experiencing.