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deb21
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Hi all.... 131 days here smoke free....and a big time trigger has arrived!! To try and keep a long story short....my kids are in daytona with their dad right now....son is 20 and daughter will be 18 this monday...so that means no more child support sorta....but the ex is in arrears...we've been divorced for over 7 years now...and tonight he calls and wants ME to sign a paper stating that he doesn't really owe the arrears cuz his son was living with him for a couple years....well the lawyer told him then that the ex should give him 300.00 and the lawyer will have all the paper work done up. He never had it done..so tonight was the big thing...with signing a paper and notarizing it....lol....NOPE no way .....he paid when he wanted to ....I'm in OHIO and he's in floriduh.....all I wanted him to do was leave me alone...and of course he's gotta start crap again...I can't help it that he didn't pay everything over the years...he wasn't with the kids when they had their little tiffs at school that I had to show up for....he didn't clothe them ....he didn't pay all the time..anyway....this triggered a smoking moment...no I haven't had a smoke...and I don't have any...but boy I could have smoked a whole pack in the last hour!!! He told me well on to plan B..and to have a great life and hung up on me. Sorry..I'm rambling.....still smoke free ...gotta take the dog for a walk just to cool my jets!!

Thanks for listening!!!