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Help is on the way for both addictions!

Christine13
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Hi, I don't think I've blogged for a bit.  It's come to my attention quite awhile ago, that while trying to stop smoking I increased my drinking instead.  Why I don't know, I guess I thought that would relax me instead of the cigs.

I had a blood test done last Friday, my liver was off.  I have been asking for help to stop drinking for a year now.

Talked to the doctor's assistant on Tuesday.  She gave me a name for a clinic that's still open to help a person stop drinking.  I am sure, this is part of why I kept relapsing.  Duel addictions to work on.  The pandemic doesn't help at all.  My daughter was home for me for 3 weeks, but she was exposed to Covid patient at work, and the next day she said there were now 6 patients there with it.  She has had her immunizations, her second one was on Tuesday.  I was exposed to her and now I'm self isolating.  She took a break and went home, until things settle on the ward again, to avoid my getting constant exposure.  Anyway, I will be stopping alcohol, I'm probably an alcoholic by now.

I have stopped the cigarettes.  I'm sure I'm in for a rough ride with lot's of work to do for both addictions.

Thanks for listening.  I know this site is for stop smoking, but now I can work on both.

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sweetplt
Member

(((Christine))) Christine13 I am so sorry to hear that you must battle two addictions...I get it...please share here for help...Gotcha in my Heart ~ Colleen 

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MarilynH
Member

Stay close Chris we're here for you blog anytime you need to or just want to vent I know you're under alot of stress I'm glad Tara has her vaccine shots done and I'm glad she went back home for now while the Covid cases are rising, deep breaths sweetie.

elvan
Member

Chris,

I am so proud of you for coming here and letting people know where you are in this journey.  You know, the same things apply to alcohol that apply to cigarettes.  You likely cannot stop at one drink and you cannot allow your liver to be damaged.  I am so glad you are going to be able to get help, that's wonderful.  I know you can do this, Chris.

I am sorry that Tara had to leave for a while but I really think it was the best decision considering her exposure to Covid.  I really hope that her vaccines are working.  

You are really doing great, recognizing the connection between alcohol and cigarettes is a big deal.  We are all here for you.

Hugs,

Ellen ( that is supposed to be a hug, LOL)

JonesCarpeDiem

Livers don't lie

Be good to yourself.

Hugs

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Speaking your truth is very powerful for your recovery.  I pray that your journey will be easier than what you are imagining.  No matter what it takes I believe you can make it. Stay close.  Lookup the sky is beautiful. 

anaussiemom
Member

I am honored to hear you share such a courageous, battle of both addictions.
There are lots of private AA meetings in areas.  With Covid unsure.!!

We are all here to help one another.  Christine13

Working in recovery many years ago.  They would ask everyone to give up most addictive behaviors all at once.... Hence it was no easy task.  Neither is quitting  smoking. 

If I can be a shoulder; for you or a listening ear, I am here.  

When I did work in recovery; I was just a monitor, gate keeper sorta speak.  I do not have any College under my belt.
One thing that helps is sharing often. For yourself more than anyone else.  Blogging is a wonderful step. 


~ Hugs.

Trisha76
Member

So sorry to hear that you now have to battle two addictions.  You done well on the smoking part so I would think when you stop the drinking, it will even help more with wanting to smoke. I always found that cigarettes went with the beer always.  When I quit smoking I did not have a beer for three months and now I allow myself one or two a week during the ball games and that’s it.  I know you can do this and remember it is one day at a time for all addictions.

anaussiemom
Member

I agree.   I think the urge wont be as great. MHO

Maki
Member

Here to support you through both addictions Christine. 

I am so very proud of you . 

Leesespieces
Member

Hi Christine,  I know that sharing those things can be difficult so I commend you for having the courage to do so. I too struggle with both addictions, so I know how you feel. I quit drinking about 8 months ago which is why I think I am even able to quit smoking. The first sip of alcohol I have I know that I will want to light up again so that helps me to stay clear of both. My Aunt had started an Online AA meeting via zoom that takes place on Wednesday mornings. (11am Eastern Standard time)  I would be happy to get you the link if that is something that you would be interested in. She is always trying to get me to go too, so maybe ill join you!. Addiction is hard and truly is a "one day at a time" process. Congrats on both of your quits! That is the best first step you can possibly make!! 

MarilynH
Member

Congratulations on both of your precious quits Leesespieces, You are doing great, how are you doing this morning Chris? Christine13 keep blogging sweet friend huge hug coming your way sweetie.

indingrl
Member

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Thank YOU so much for YOUR self honesty and courageous HEART attitude and YES - with your NEW mindset - to be nicotine and alcohol FREE - CONGRATS Christine - WAY TO GO

About the Author
I'm a widow now, my husband passed away January 1, 2018 He died of COPD, and pre leukemia and the flu. He quit smoking 15 years ago which gave him extra time. I am a mother, and grandmother. I have smoked for 47 years. I am going to have my forever quit and I'm doing it for me and my two daughters so I can live longer and be with them. I like to read, swim, garden, crochet, paint and doodle. I also enjoy walking and visiting with friends and family. I am 100% making this my last quit. I have been in denial about what smoking has done to me and my kids. I must make a new life for myself and it doesn't include cigarettes. I may already have COPD, but have not been officially diagnosed.