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Junior7
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Still smoke free, but missing the motions of smoking. Feeling edgy.   Find myself drinking a bit more alcohol than usual, which is not good for a new quit.   Could use some support--or even a good kick in the backside.  I hope everyone has a good day. 

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JACKIE1-25-15
Member
  

https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/blogs/Youngatheart.7.4.12-blog/2013/02/25/100-things-to-do-instea...

  

Maybe you can find something to do out of these 100things.


Junior7
Member

Thanks!  What a great list!  Today I soaked in the tub.  I took myself out for an Americano with an extra shot.  I will be watching the baseball playoffs and going to the doctor for my annual physical.  Right now I am hanging out with my Milo with sports on the tv and my beloved EX website on the computer.  I will keep that list handy.  Thanks again!

Giulia
Member

No, drinking a bit more alcohol than usual is definitely NOT good for a new quit.  So STOP IT!  Aaaargh.  What - you're aching for a relapse?

Keep your hands busy.  Keep your mind busy.  Do something you've never done before.  Shake up your routine.  Don't dwell in the smoking thought well.  It'll drown you every time. 

LouiseR
Member

grab a rubberband and keep stretching it between your two hands to keep them busy.  Do some slow deep breathing.  You got this!

barbt12-30-2015

Have you read the book Easy Way by Allen Carr? Someone has it here on this site. That is how I started this quit and it really helped. You should get a copy and read it. I am sure some can get it for you.

 

Hang in there it gets easier

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

http://media.wix.com/ugd/74fa87_2010cc5496521431188f905b7234a829.pdf

Link to Allen Carr's book Easy Way to Quit Smoking​

barbt12-30-2015

Thanks Jackie, It does not take long to read and it really helps.

TerrieQuit
Member

I will not kick you! But, Giulia is right no alcohol. It lowers your inhabitions. I have seen quite a few quits lost because of alcohol, Just since I got here!

Read the book, take a walk, do something else! Do not dwell!! June, you have a quit going! Keep moving forward!

Terrie  94  DOF

JonesCarpeDiem

just stand t the left and bend over

bonniebee
Member

It seems that I have always had a wicked hand to mouth habit even until I was in my 40's I bit my fingernails terribly even as a smoker  !  My biggest aid for that has been the trusty straws cut into thirds .I used them a lot in the first few months and now I don't need them as much but just this morning driving to work I had that urge for something in my hand and mouth besides a cigarette and I keep some in the car, Just chewing on it for a few minutes did  the trick  !

Hang in there it gets easier please don't mess up your quit by drinking alcohol I used to drink and it can give you that "I don't give a crap attitude " until the next day when all the regret and consequences set in !

Jennifer-Quit
Member

The only way out is through! 

froguelady
Member

There is a link to the easy way on my page.  You know better than to drink alcohol so stop it.  I may borrow Dales contraption and come visit.

YoungAtHeart
Member

Drinking causes you to be less disciplined - and thus less committed to your quit.  So - QUIT that!

Smoking is so not going to give you anything you need.  It is a false promise wrapped up in cancer causing chemicals!!!  You KNOW better, don't you? 

Get busy DOING.  Clean out a drawer, go for a walk, play a computer game.  Just don't entertain those smoking thoughts - at ALL!

Your life and breath really do depend on it!

Nancy

Barbara145
Member

Hi June.  Where are you in regard to the nicotine gum?  I remember you decreased it relatively recently.  NRT's NOT smoking.  It takes time to get over cigarettes.  I never thought I would get over smoking.  It happens.  Do whatever it takes to get to that point.  Do not worry about NRT's.  Worry about smoking!  Love,  Barbara

MarilynH
Member

I hope and pray that you are still with us June, you can do this my friend. You have alot of good suggestions above me, I have nothing to add other than  (DON'T  DRINK) -- you know how many good people have lost their quit to booze. Drink lemonade or iced tea anything but the alcohol, love you my friend. Stay strong and blog HELP if you are having a hard time. (((((Big Hug)))))

Marilyn 

Sootie
Member

Junior----I don't usually do this but...since you asked...........

CONSIDER

YOURSELF

KICKED!!!!!

Stay Strong.........

sparky26
Member

No drinking ! 

Carol6
Member

**bleep**

I saw the link above in a comment. It seems odd that it would be okay to put a copy of the book on here. Shouldn't that be an issue with copyright infringement or has the author given their permission? Nevermind, I got my answer. It' didn't let me post the link. Which is good I suppose.

YoungAtHeart
Member

@Carol6 

In the "olden days,"  copyright was not as much of an issue.  We used to routinely supply a link to the book on the 'net (it's out there).  

Allen Carr died in 2006.