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Happily a non smoker!

nicolelineah
Member
1 6 20

I am so very happy to have quit smoking forever! I had smoked off and on since I was 16. Reasons being to be cool, socializing, native american peace ritual (no kidding!) habit, stress, mental illness. When I read Allan Carr's book and I finally realized that cigarettes were making all those thing harder and that I was really putting an average of 20 hits of a lethal drug into my body every time I smoked, not to mention spending far too much on the addiction that was destroying my teeth and gums and making me smell hideous, I had a great epiphany and know now that I will NEVER smoke again! I have the urges still every now and then from triggers but every time I just laugh and say to my self, "that(smoking) will not help the problem at all, and will even make it worse." My new mantra is THIS TOO SHALL PASS! and it works for everything to bring me peace in that whatever it is I am going through it's temporary and to just not be afraid of either losing it if it's happy, or wallowing in it if it's not. I am telling everyone I can about the book and this site, and am so exuberantly happy and SMOKE FREE FOR LIFE!!!! bless you all and have a great day! Nicole  

6 Comments
YoungAtHeart
Member

Slow, deep breaths are really helpful for a lot of life's travails.  Go slower and deeper and slower and deeper....

Am I right that you are quit for two weeks now?  If so - you sound GREAT for so early in your quit!

Stay vigilant and hang in there!

Nancy

Deena-A-Yenni
Member

Great tribute!!  Thanks for sharing.

Strudel
Member

This too shall pass is a perfect mantra! Congrats on your quit!! Be sure to stay close! 

marla_10.12.15

Awesome! You are so positive, and that helps tremendously. Way to go!

TerrieQuit
Member

Congratulations! You're positivity is amazing! WTG

Terrie  85  DOF

nicolelineah
Member

I think it helped me that my neighbors are drug addicts and that I can see what addiction has done to their lives. I clearly saw that smoking cigarettes was and is a DRUG ADDICTION. I really wanted to be free of it; the smoking even when I didn't want to; the social stigma of caring for toddlers and smoking at the same time... Also when I really tuned in to what the drug was giving me on that last smoke I realized I was really agitated and out of it! not peaceful and content like a native smoking the peace pipe (that was the lie I told myself) I have so much more time to focus on my children and my life! No more counting the minutes till the next smoke. No more- can we hurry up and get over with dinner, or playtime so I can go smoke! This is truly far easier than I could have ever imagined, because I gave up nothing but TROUBLE and gained EVERYTHING!!!! I hope this helps someone else 🙂 Nicole