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HOW I QUIT AFTER 40 YEARS (And My Self Preparation)

JonesCarpeDiem
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HOW I QUIT AFTER 40 YEARS


A friend suggested it would be good for me to quit and might encourage his brother.

I spent a month getting my head around quitting. I didn't stress about it. i just let it happen.

First, I considered it and then began telling myself to wait a little longer between cigarettes.
It was very empowering to realize i didn't have to smoke every time i wanted to.

pretty soon I was down to a half pack a day.
I was never freaking out. if i wanted a smoke, I had one.

the friday of the 4th week, i went to my "smoke store" and bought what I knew was my last pack.
I quit the next tuesday morning. I saved one for that last morning so I didn't freak out when I woke up and decide to not follow through.

I hadn't yet heard of or been to a quit smoking site until after I was two weeks into it.

I used the patch for 10 of the first 14 days
I laughed each time i would have smoked and that took my focus off smoking and into learning what triggered me to smoke.

that was almost 4 years ago.

there is no luck.
Its just a decision.

 

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.