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christine2007
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This week my husband and I traveled to Ohio to see his brother who was in the hospital recovering from a triple bypass - a subject my husband is familiar with since he had his bypass almost two years ago. The day his brother went home from the hospital we went back to our nice NON SMOKING hotel room and within an hour or so my hubby started getting nauseated and dizzy.

We were only 5 minutes from the hospital so I suggested that we go to the ER to have this checked out but he refused and put his feet up to watch some TV. An hour later he was still dizzy and nauseated and I said, that's it... we're going to the hospital. He rolled over to sit up and began vomiting blood the consistence and color of warm black cherry jello... all over the bed and floor. I've never seen anything like this... short of a horror movie.

I tried to hold him on the bed and get to the phone... finally reaching the hotel clerk who said she'd call an ambulance. I realized that we had already double latched the door and that the EMTs wouldn't be able to get in... but he was hanging off the bed and I didn't want him to fall. I was able to reach my toes under the rollers of the desk chair and drag it to the side of the bed to prop it against him... and then I made a dash to door. EMTs were there in just minutes... along with the Police and hotel staff. They were horrified when they came into the room.

They got a line into my hubby and quickly transported him to the same hospital his brother had just checked out of. He continued to vomit and lose blood over the next hour. They gave him 5 units of blood and 2 or 3 liters of saline wide open - as fast as they could. His blood pressure dropped to 70/20. For the next 8 hours they worked on him until they were able to get his stomach to stop bleeding and go in to see what was happening to him.

The following day we learned that four vessels in his stomach had ulcers and burst at the same time... as a result of taking Plavix and a full dose aspirin. He's a very lucky man that we were where we were... since we live in a rural area with only volunteer paramedics and the hospital is a half hour away... had we been at home my husband would be dead.

Now, that he was stable and going to be ok... I contacted the hotel and apologized for the damage and thanked them for all their help. They had reserved the room right next door so I could move our things there since our room needed HazMat to get cleaned.

That night I returned to the hotel very late and I was dog tired as we had been up a full 24+ hours. I unlocked the new room and walked in to discover that it was a smoking room!

Yep, the STANK was overwhelming... and just what I needed. I have to admit that my addict mind had a fleeting thought about dragging on a cigarette after the trauma of the day had settled down... and the Universe decided to play a nice trick on me by putting me in a smoking room. The smell though... just gagged me. No butts for me! I had enough of the ugly reminder of smoking to know that I'm so glad I didn't smoke.

So, here we are... in one of the best heart hospitals and he's recovering very nicely... and my QUIT is doing fine! Every doctor and every nurse and every EMT has asked the same questions and one of them always is... DO YOU SMOKE. My husband proudly says NO, I quit in 1984. I'm so happy he's alive and just know that we have angels all around us... he's a lucky, lucky man.
21 Comments
Sandra3
Member
Wow Christine you are so right!!! There are Angels among us! I can not imagine what you went through! I am so happy he is ok now and that you are ok as well. Your story touches me for several reasons, 1, my father died when I was 3 years old. He had stomach ulcers that he did not take care of and eventually he had surgery but it was too late. 2, you mention angels and I am a huge fan of the angel community! and 3, I was a hotel manager, I can picture the whole scene from housekeeping to the front desk to the management. I can promise you while they were trying to be helpful in keeping you close to your original room, they did not consider the fact that it was a smoking room for more than a few minutes. It was room placement they considered not room type. AGain, glad it all worked out for you!
jan__tx
Member
bless your heart! That must have been the scariest thing ever! So glad things are better now...hope your husband has a speedy recover.
JoAnne5-14-2008
Wow Christine89. You and your husband are truly blessed. I can only imagine how horrifying that was. Makes me cringe to think about it. What exactly is plavix prescribed for? I've seen it advertised on t.v. I refuse to take any of those medicines they advertise, wow, look at all the side effects. I have Rheumatoid Arthritis, but I refuse to take any prescription meds. Again, I am so glad to hear that you and your husband are okay. Glad you didn't smoke. That would have been a mess right there. A "1984" quit. Awesome.
Sandy4
Member


I am very glad to hear he is ok!!! I am glad you stayed with your quit!! God bless!!!
AutumnWoman
Member
You and your husband are strong people, must have nerves of steel. I'm so glad you both got through this horrible situation. It's an added plus that nobody was smoking. Your husband is a lucky man!
barbara42
Member
CHRISTINE, you have come through so much and your husband, but you both are still standing. i am so glad he is going to be alright and i am so glad for you that things are alright. i am so glad it is over for you both, give your husband our best wishes peace!
hwc
Member
Wow. What an awful ordeal. We'll be thinking of you and your husband (and his brother!) as everybody recovers.
sheryl
Member
OMG! you brave brave lady! i am so happy things worked out well for you both. i will say a prayer before bed for you and your husband.
danielle28
Member
Oh my.....Christine I am so sorry that you and your husband are going through this.
I couldn't imagine.......... I'm just glad you are all doing better now.
You will be in my thoughts.
chelle
Member
WOW!!! Thank God !!! You will be in my prayers !
sandee
Member
Scary, I can only imagine what you went through. Please know that we will all be thinking of you and your husband, and brother in law. Wishing you all the best. Take care and make sure that you get the rest that you need Christine.
cindywilson
Member
wow, I hav no doubt God was looking out for him and I will say extra prayers for a speedy recovery!
carlie
Member
My Goodness....what an experience...and what a trooper you are !!!!

I always say: "You are where you need to be !" You really proved THAT one, didn't you ??
Thank goodness you were near a good hospital......I am glad to hear your husband and his brother will be fine....and, again, I laughed how you were able to turn it around and laugh at being in a smoking room !!!
Good Girl.....stay strong !!!!
melissa2
Member
That had to be one of the scariest events of your life! I am glad to hear he is doing better, and that you didn't smoke!
We will keep you and your family in our prayers!!
jan__tx
Member
how are things going this afernoon?
bloominglater
Member
christine! bless the lord, oh my soul and ALL that is within me, bless his holy name! i am so happy to hear this. this story reminds me that there is order in the universe and things happen for a reason. give your husband a BIG hug for me! we're so glad he's still here and doing well!
christine2007
Member
Hi friends... as you can tell I haven't been near a computer since I posted this event. This man of mine does keep me busy!!! We learned today that after the stomach hemorrhage he had a mild heart attack but he is OK. You can imagine that if he were an active smoker he'd also have had the odds stacked against him.

He had NO symptoms and no stomach pain. The Plavix is a special tier drug that keeps the blood slippery so that it doesn't complicate heart function... it's a great drug. The real culprit was the full dose aspirin that he's been taking at night before bed. The Gastro doc said that this MUST be taken with a glass of water before and after so the aspirin doesn't sit on the stomach lining. Who knew?!

He's checked out of the hospital so we can make the 8 hour drive home, slowly and so he can be seen by his cardiologist, gastroenterologist and primary care physicians this next week. Looks like we'll be very busy... but I'd rather that than be planning a funeral!!!

Normally I respond to most comments but I guess you'll understand why I couldn't today. Also, about the hotel staff... yes... they were all focused on our situation and I'm sure it never crossed their minds about the smoking room thing... but it turned out to be just the ugly reminder I needed not to cave in.

Hugs to all!
tigs
Member
Christine, I am so glad that you and your hubby where where he could get the help he needed quickly! That must have been quite a scare! You will both be in my thoughts, and I hope you continue to have those guardian angels wathcing out for you both!
sarai
Member
Wow - that's an amazing story - I'm so glad that he's okay! And also - thank goodness you called the doctor and managed to hold it all together throughout all of this!! I'm sure he's going to be fine after this... what a rough ride for you - I hope everything goes well!
doris_mccoy
Member
I will keep you in my prayers.God bless you. I am glad to know that you and your hubby is OK.
les
Member
I can't imagine how scared you were! Thank goodness he is okay and so are you!!! I'm proud of you and the way you handled everything! Thank goodness you were so close to the hospital!