So. The 7th was my 1 month smoke free..I smoked..... bad things happened...very bad things. Oh well right? ..What I've learned is life deals you situations that make you NOT CARE.... to fight THOSE are a bitch....but we need to. We wont want to.. we just have to.. be smarter right?? RRRRRRRRRRARRRR!
Nightmare. Total effing nightmare.. wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.. not in any single lifetime. IT.WAS.HELL.
What did it do for me? And they say- That which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger.... I'm no stronger... I throw up almost daily.. from stress.. from pain.. I go through HELL all of the time and I admit, there are those who have it still worse than me and I pray for them but omg... that doesnt make it any easier on me. They say: God never gives us more than we can handle.. and I believe that. It tells me that there are some strong people out there...but for the strength I have...I've hit my quota...my max. I am not as strong as I thought I was.. stong in some parts, weak in others.
Alcohol is my problem..not cigarettes.. smoking just comes with the territory.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1cQh1ccqu8M
It's death in a bottle. Tonight I fell to my knees and cried... begged the sick feeling to go away as I smoked..what do you think is the bigger problem? Cigs or alcohol? .... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3zkkLckeyM I used to think this song was cute and funny... now it's just evil... and wrong because it does sooo much more than that... it should say: "I can make you smoke like a chimney, I can make you vomit blood..I can give you liver damage, and make you pray for your life..."
Is there a site like this for alcoholics? My real name is Amanda, and I AM an alcoholic. It burns to have to say so, but I don't care anymore. It will kill me faster than cigarettes... You know what alcohol does to me as far as nicotine?...It makes me smoke, then, 5 seconds after a cigarette I break out the nicotine gum to chew in between.
I had a good person try to reach out to me on this (Judy)..she noticed it so fast.. I tried to quit but I failed. Apparently people caring about you doesnt even help..I wish it did.. if it did I'd be better to my husband..he doesn't want to go through it anymore....anymore than I do. My mom used to warn me that people in my family just should not drink. My mom ended up with a brain tumor (not part of drinking, but she used to drink, and drank later and had a seziure..shes fine these days..it keeps her from drinking, but I remember the days when she said she puked blood too.... I cried and was so scared for her).
So when you can't smoke.. what's that feel like? Are you kneeling in front of the toilet, sticking your finger down your throat, just to ensure you'll feel a little less crappy tomorrow? I am NOT making light of nicotine withdrawl..know that... but it sure is hard to quit when you drink and drinking and cigs go hand in hand.. that's for sure.
Even now.. after crying and praying for help, I know theres more, and I contemplate drinking it. It's time to fight. Quitting cigarettes is hard, but for me, it's not my biggest task. I have a nightmare ahead of me. Something that is far more difficult for me to fight...and it's ruining my life. What to do....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRv0jVZtdbY