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Everything About You Matters

SimplySheri
Member
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~~Everything about you matters.  Everything.  Your voice.  Your song.  Your sorrow.  Your joy.  Your dreams.  Your tragedies.  Your struggles.  Your victories.  Your tears.  Your laugh.  The way your cheeks blush.  The way your nose crinkles.  Everything.  The world will tell you you are insignificant.  You are everything but that.  You are beautiful.  You are alive.   You are original.  Everything about you matters.  Everything.~~ S. C. Lauriel

You may not think so.  You may think that it doesn't matter that you smoke.  You may think that no one much cares what you do. 

You have never been so wrong.  Because you matter.  Every breath you take.  Every smile.  Every word.  You touch people's lives and people's hearts.  Of course the world gets so busy that some may forget to tell you.  Others may simply assume you know how very, very important you are to them. 

You may not have much family.  You may not have many friends.  But that part isn't important.   YOU are important.  You may save a life one day with just a smile that someone needed to see in order to remember people really are kind.  You may touch the life of a child who has thought no one cared. 

But most of all, my dear smokers, you should matter to.....you.  Yes, quitting may seem difficult.  But aren't you worth the effort?  Yes, you are!   Don't you love yourself as much as you love those family members and friends?  You should.  You should delight that you are here in the world!!  That truly means something.  Get to know yourself, be your own best friend, be the hero of your own story and always, always be stronger than your excuses.

Love yourself enough to quit.  Because you matter.  Because we need you.  Because the universe needs you.  But mostly because you should matter to yourself.

Good night, EX world.  Sweet dreams and quiet joys to each of you.

9 Comments
sukarisaloum-clay
I just joined this site today. My quit date is , August 2, 2016. My husband is dying from COPD, Emphazima. He is on oxygen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It breaks my heart and I'm using it as one motivation. My son and daughter, both have started smoking. I cannot help but wonder if they had never seen me smoke. Chances are they would never tried. I'm going to show my children that I can quit. I am excited about this website. Sukari Saloum-Clay
sukarisaloum-clay
One last thing, ive started getting conscience of being embarrassed to smoke in front of certain people and at certain places.
pomchi2
Member

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. Congratulations on planning on quitting! I'm on Day 1 and I'm already having a hard time but I'm positive we can do it! Don't look back and think "what if". I'm sure you're a wonderful mother-smoker or not! The positive thing is you're changing your habit and I'm sure your children will catch on. Good luck and stay positive!! You got this!  

stonecipher
Member

Just beautiful. Thank you.

TerrieQuit
Member

Wonderful post, Sheri! Very inspiring!     Terrie

I Won't Quit on my Quit!

MarilynH
Member

Thank you sweet Sheri for another inspirational blog. ☆♡☆♡☆♡☆

JonesCarpeDiem

and a good morning to you.

elvan
Member

I LOVE this, every single thing about you matters, the good, the bad, the happy, the sad. This is lovely.

nikki77
Member
really needed this!!!! thank u:) you are amazing!!!