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Don't you feel violated when something you expected to be in it's place is stolen?

JonesCarpeDiem
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My brother and I each have small propane grills for an occasional steak or grilled veggies. Mine was my Christmas present to myself. The one time I used it was on Christmas day to make a steak.

Someone stole the regulator and 2 full bottles of gas.

All I could think of was, I wonder who had the opportunity to even know they were there. Mine was hidden behind the stairs and not easily seen unless you've passed it a number of times and happened to notice it.

I'm upset that I no longer have a grill. The regulator costs more to replace than what I paid for the grill.  But it was a done deal. It took over an hour to assemble it and I had an option to grill if I wanted to.

So some thief decided to change my life.

It reminds me of the thief we call smoking. We never knew how much it took from us until we stopped letting it.

12 Comments
froguelady
Member

To me a thief is someone thats doesn't want to work to get something but will steal it from someone else. Sorry you lost your grill Dale.

MarilynH
Member

I am also sorry that there has to be thieves in this that live among us but it does take all kinds to make the world go around. You are so right about the thief we called smoking, I only have 200 days in but I definitely know how much of my time was wasted on cigarettes. Thanks Dale. 

doxiemama
Member

So sorry about your grill, and what a great point you made once again

candylance
Member

Thieves blew what was a nice deal for YOU. Sorry, Dale!!

Candy        18      DOF

lois2
Member

sorry about the grill,  Dale cigarettes still so much for us.

elvan
Member

Sorry about the grill, Dale and YES, I feel violated when someone steals something.  Believe it or not, someone stole a copper fountain from outside of the house after the fire. I had set it on the side of the house to pick up later, I did not take it right away because of the smell...when I went back, it was gone.  I was sick over it, absolutely sick.  Some people amaze me but most amaze me for GOOD reasons and I try to remember that.

JonesCarpeDiem

They took your still?

🙂

JonesCarpeDiem

annb
Member
What a lousey butt person! So sorry! Have you seen any strangers around or had any work done around the house/yard recently? I know you're not smokin over it .... Other than smokin mad! 🙂
Magstoyou
Member

Sorry Dale that someone stole your grill!!!

I don't know why some people do what they do!!

 

Mag

Giulia
Member

I lived in NYC half my life.  I had my purse picked at least three times, stolen in front of my eyes off a table in a restaurant by a guy running by, bike stolen, apartment robbed, car battery stolen from a garage, car stolen and stripped in LA - I know all about thievery.  It's the irreplacebale items, the mementos that hurt the most.

That robber thief Nicodemon is never gonna steal another moment of my life.  I'm wise to him and I've learned how to protect myself.  In the beginning it's one day at a time.  At my stage - it's having eyes in the back of my head.  I can smell him and I know what to do to protect myself.  Come HERE and read and reaffirm! 

John10forteen
Member

Sorry  Dale..... No steak?

When I was younger, I felt extremely violated, now I just get pissed at the inconvenience and expense.... unless it was personal, then my heart aches.

And Ellen..... copper is gold these days. Sorry you got ripped off too. It sucks! 

Stay smoke free, nobody can steal that if we don't hand it over.

About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.