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Don't quit smoking before you are ready! (repost 03/31/11)

pir8fan
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Several weeks ago a very nice Lady in Florida was diagnosed with three abdominal aneurysms. One that might need surgery! Having access to a medical professional in the family, she began to understand that she needed to quit smoking. You see smoking restricts blood vessels. This is not a good thing, especially for aneurysms. It can cause them to rupture! So acting on the facts, her sister the medical professional went to see her. She took her a copy of Allen Carr's book. She took her to the best website in the world for people who are quitting. She introduced her sister to you and me! She worked hard to make sure that her sister understood the importance of quitting. She showed her, by example, that it could be done.

  

When this lady's sister left, she thought it all over, and decided to quit smoking. She started reading the book. She set her quit date, for today. She planned very well! She understood that her in-home job, working at her computer, was a trigger. She was used to smoking while she worked. Yesterday she called her boss and took a week off. She understood the importance of avoiding that trigger. Today is the day she is quitting!.............. But something went terribly wrong. This wonderful Lady quit a day early!

  

While this very special Lady went about the steps of preparing to quit, there was another aneurysm that had not been discovered. It was in her brain! Yesterday, that aneurysm ruptured. She was rushed to the hospital. Emergency brain surgery was preformed. A short time later another brain surgery. Two major surgeries back to back! This story is going to get better. Sandy's sister, Leah was taken off the ventilator this afternoon! She was able to talk and answer questions. She is not out of the woods yet. But the outlook is optimistic. Leah has quit smoking! She can never smoke again. The choice of when to quit was taken from her. It could have easily have been her life that was taken!

  

My point is simple. If you are planning to quit, get it done. Do it while the date is still your choice!

  

Post sctript: Unfortunately this story did not end well! Leah passed away almost exactally a year later from one of the abdominal aneurysm rupturing. She did, however, pass away Free of addiction! Our friend Sandy, aka "keptpromise" has moved on from the site and continues to live Smoke Free! I heard from her about a week ago! She has moved into a new phase of her life that no longer includes me/us! But she does appreciate the support she got at a very rough time in her life!

  

Sandy I/we wish you well!

   

  
     
10 Comments
SimplySheri
Member

And so do I.....best wishes for a very happy life, Sandy!!

As always, Tommy....thank you for the caring and the wisdom you show us here.

YoungAtHeart
Member

Too many of us (me included) didn't quit until our health forced us to. I can vouch for the fact, as well, that it is not a good idea. 

Quit BEFORE some major health event wakes you up!  You CAN do it!

Nancy

linda.mustafa
Member

Thank you for sharing this with us , what a meaningful yet poignant story and I agree with you, do it while you still have a choice!!

I wish Sandy all the best in her life and may her sister rest in peace.

ShawnP
Member

RIP Leah and to Sandy, wish you a good and happy life.

It's a sad story. How many wait til last minute to quit and it's too late? In Leah's case, she extended her life by a year but the ones who keep putting off quitting, their days are numbered. Now is the time to quit people!!!

kevin11314
Member

And I sure wish you well .  In my Prayers.

MarilynH
Member

Thank you, for this wonderful blog. I waited until health issues as well but I now have 134 precious smoke free days in yay.

Marilyn

annb
Member
Thank you Tommy. Powerful. Bless them. 💔
twty906
Member

thank you for the story--with me COPD--mid term right now and still treatable with puffers-no oxygen- that is why i have to stop playing aroun with my quit dates--- Blessings to her family-

Giulia
Member

Lessons lessons lesssons.  Hard ones.  Good ones.  Thanks Tommy.  Sandy kept her promise.  May we all follow her lesson.

Strudel
Member

Thank you dear Tommy!