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Don't Dwell.

james41
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I don't know and can't speak for all, but think that maybe there is a certain amount of smoking thoughts we carry to our grave. I do, however, think that if we dwell on the craving, urge, longing, thinking , romancing, of a cigarette or when it's going to go away, it will stay with us a lot longer. I realize the feeling of excitement and making everything all about the QUIT, I also have been in the place of almost wanting to cry dwelling on the QUIT also. Once You take all of the importance away from the QUIT  some of the newness and excitement goes away and the same way with the dreaded , horrible  'don't want to quit'  QUIT. Don't give it any power at all after you lay them down and soon you'll not be dwelling on the urge, crave, longing whatever you wish to call it. You will start to  live, and I mean really live and think about important things, dwell on goals and a new leaf in life and start toward excellence in you remaining time here on this ole earth and not on a damn cigarette all the time. Yes It crosses my mind daily, but here's the kicker,, it is so BRIEF I am able to move on without any sort of dwelling on it whatsoever. And this life of freedom is by far better than the ball and chain, I'll take an occasional thought anyday to the real thing. Remember to laugh at it, take away it's power and you're free!!

Peace guys, I'm free about 420 days after smoking 2 packs a day for 36 years!!

6 Comments
lynette3
Member

So true! Thanks, James! Great blog, as usual!

_m_11
Member

Thank you James.  Prefect timing and powerful words.   I need to learn how to handle  the occasional thought of wanting to smoke when I compare it to the real thing.  You give me hope, M 

pipster540
Member

Thanks James...

toroweep
Member

I went back and read quite a few of your blog posts from day one.  Now I know the quit that I want IS possible.  May not do it, but it is possible.  And I mean not a miserable quit.  This is my first after 25 years of a pack a day.  No other serious attempts.  Several times said let's see if you can go a day or two and within hours I'd be smoking butts out of the ashtray.  I think this why I was so afraid to quit.  But I went thru several major life changes this year and decided to just go ahead and add one more.  I did the prep work - reading lots, starting on an exercise program, stopped drinking alcohol, read Allen Carr, started Wellbutrin, and joined this blog site  Tonight I will complete my 3rd day!  I am ecstatic  - I can't believe it.  But it hasn't been difficult.  Just a few very brief thoughts.  I wouldn't even call them cravings.  So I guess I was getting worried - when is it really going to hit me!  But after reading your blog I believe it's possible to continue with maybe not the perfect quit, but a quit that isn't miserable.  Thanks.

Strudel
Member
James -thanks - you should be very proud of the comment above mine from Toroweep....way to go!
MarcieWhosoever

wow yes! Very well said and inspirational. Ive always believed in the power of positive thinking, but for some odd reason even the thought of quitting makes me sad, edgy, negative. I really need to try to change my mind set and think the way I do about any other thing in my life. Positively 🙂