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Day 3 - Yayy for Me!

bloominglater
Member
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today was hard. i kept my patch on all day and then in the middle of the day, one of my co-workers said--"now don't go to lunch, take off the patch and smoke." well, that had never occurred to me. it sounded like a really good idea and that's all i could think about for most of the rest of the day. i just decided to stick to my guns, though and see where this journey would take me. i learned a good tip today-when i started feeling emotional or thinking about cigarettes, i touched my skin and patted my arms. i thought about how strong my skin was. how it kept all my organs, muscles and tissues firmly into place. i thought that i was whole and complete in my body. by the time i knew it, i was no longer thinking about smoking. it was a very good tip!

so, although i really struggled today, i am pleased to say that i am still smoke free.
12 Comments
barbara42
Member
YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!PEACE!
hwc
Member
Wow. Some friend that was, huh?

I believe that I would probably have to say, "Ok, you're right, let me have a cigarette..." then take the pack and throw it in the toilet. See how "your friend" likes nicotine withdrawal.
libby
Member
Good for you. I did the patch once and smoked w/the patch on. Needless to say I didn't quit that time. You are doing the right thing. Don't smoke.
Sandra3
Member
Great job! You can do this!!!
bloominglater
Member
i know, hwc and she's the main one always telling me to quit! before i left the office, i thought, "oh, i'll stop at 7-11 and get some candy." then, i remembered how crafty my smoker's mind is. i was just trying to find a way to get to those DAMNED cigarettes! lol! so, i stayed at the office and left until the feeling passed!

thanks, Lib! i thought about it. i really did. yikes--i just didn't want to lose my time (on the counter). i know that sounds silly, there are so many other reasons not to, but that was the MAIN one.
Sandy4
Member

JonesCarpeDiem
Yikes?

(SerPriiizze surprize (ala Gomer Pyle)
grace3
Member
hwc
Member
Can you imagine walking up to a friend trying to quit and telling them to take the patch off and smoke? I'm just trying to wrap my arms around what would possess someone to do that.
AutumnWoman
Member
Your co-worker is a quit saboteur!!! Were you guys smoking buddies? That's the only reason I can think of for someone deliberately trying to get someone to smoke who's in the process of quitting. It may be time to develop some new friendships at work if you want to keep your quit. In any event, congratulations on making it through the day with that kind of temptation.
jan9
Member
I'm proud of you for standing your ground. Yeah, friends like that who needs enemys????
I had to make it a point to tell my friends please don't smoke around me in my first few weeks because it really DID and sometimes still bothers me. I was not asking them not to smoke but just not that I could see them or right in my face kinda thing. Mostly it bothers me now not because I want to smoke with them but because it FREAKIN STINKS. I don't know but maybe you should do your breaks and lunch by yourself for awhile or with a non smoker friend if she isn't going to be supportive. You might have to tell her I love ya but I'm serious about this quitting smoking and I need your help. She should respect you. I know my friends support me and respect me. I have done that for others that quit smoking too.
Honestly stay strong there is way more good things that will happen in your life by being a non smoker. I am seeing so many of them already and only 40 days into my quit. I saw somewhere you had said something about struggling with your relationship with God and you because of your smoking habbit.
Remember your never alone and praying in my first week was huge. I even said quotes from the bible out loud sometimes when cravings would hit me. The words of God are powerful. I'm proof of that I'll tell you. It gets better I promise it does and it's worth it too 🙂