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Day 109: Not a milestone, but kinda cool...

SkyGirl
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I got back from a rather grueling two-day trip.  I flew into and out of six different cities all within 42 hours. Have you ever seen what happens to your plastic bottle of water while your plane is descending?  You know how it contracts and shrinks and gets all sucked in?  Well, I hate to deliver bad news, but there is a similar effect upon your body as your airplane lands while under cabin pressure.  For those of you who fly occasionally, there aren't any effects that you notice.  But when you are a human water bottle that is pressurized, depressurized and repressurized several times each day...  Well, I'm a glass-half-full person, so I'll just say it's an experience that makes you appreciate bedtime. 

But despite feeling like a Dansani bottle that's been through the wringer in the last two days, I wanted to come here and tell you the coolest thing about my trip.

I didn't say anything to anyone (my crew, passengers, pilots, gate agents, layover hotel clerks, van drivers, etc.) about having recently quit smoking.  Yup.  That's all.  That's it.

Not a word about smoking passed my lips in the last 42 hours. 

Now, I'm not a fanatic who preaches to everyone---Bob forbid! (see the nod to my dear friend, Jordan?).  But I do talk about it, usually to explain why I choose not to hang with the crew in certain areas outside airports and hotels, sometimes just to sort of reinforce my Quit by talking out loud about it, even sometimes to explain the weight gain that I'm so embarrassed about...

But I got home tonight and realized that I had not felt the need to speak to anyone about that fact that I just quit smoking.  I was a non-smoker on this trip.  I just WAS.  In fact, at the end of the trip, as we were on the shuttle to the employee parking lot, I thought to myself, "Wow.  These people that I've just spent the last two days with, in close quarters, don't even THINK of me as a smoker or a reformed smoker.  They would probably be really surprised to hear that I was a smoker until very recently".

So, not really a milestone.  But yay me, right?   xxxooo, Sky

22 Comments
Giulia
Member

Uh Yeah YAY YOU!!!!  And actually that step IS a milestone.  So feed on it, girl!

freedom-38
Member

Um yeah, yay YOU!!

cyn9
Member

Each day quit is a milestone. And 109 is AWESOME!!! Go GIRL!

joyeuxencore
Member

I LOVE this...I understand...I have not marched into work and announced to anyone what day I am on in...don't remember...and these folks would be happy and applaud but I haven't THOUGHT to do it...even on day 70 today...I actually meant to but forgot. OH YEAH skygirl...non-smokers R US...xo

karen-lane
Member

bravo, ur close to the end of no man's land, applaud urself.

Brenda_M
Member

Yay!  That is really cool! Good job...and boy, did I miss you!

jdc1953
Member

Love the Dasani water bottle description.  Yes, that is a great feeling when you can just be you without explanations (regarding the not smoking). 

Love it!  Yay for you.

Joyce

jojo_2-24-11
Member

Congrats on 109 days! Dasani is one of my favorites because of the non-flimsy bottles.

grandpamike
Member

Congratz on 109 days. I am looking forward to when I can say 109 so to me it is a milestone. Congratz

Patty-cake
Member

I'm with Guilia, not thinking or talking about quitting smoking IS a milestone. This is where we strive to be. Congrats.

kris54
Member

Nancy, I am so HAPPY and PROUD of you for getting to day 109........ Nothing can stop you now!

justsayno3
Member

Once we take smoking off our brain and let our bodies clense and our brain chemistry return to a natural state, we just become different. You are not the same woman you were 109 days ago. Congratulations and keep posting your awesome insights. Love the water bottle body comparison. Makes me want to throw up a little bit. lol.

Lee

mygirls-6-5-17

Woohoo! This is so great, I can't wait to not think about being an ex-smoker, and just go through life feeling like a non-smoker.  You are wonderful, congrats on 109 days!

debr
Member

A Wow, Wow, Yay, Yay for you, Skygirl!!!!

Jenny78
Member

Congratulations on 109 days and not even thinking about it for 42 hours.  That is awsome!  However, the deppressurization is raising some questions with me about flying again. LOL

AmyWells
Member

You are so awesome! Thanks for keeping all of us encouraged!

Strudel
Member

Yay you - for sure!!! Congrats on 109 days!!!

Danno_11-10-12

Congratulations on 109 days Sky Girl.  And thanks for the interesting airline story.

Ex_Nancy
Member

WOOHOO...when you start to forget about it, you begin a new life...going into a new phase in your quit. You are so AWESOME....congrats on day 1O9!!! (I didn't know about the water thing)

Nyima_1.6.13
Member

OK, so I don't ever want to fly again but congrats on behaving like a nonsmoker (ie. someone who doesn't think about smoking). I can't wait to forget about it!!!

Jordan-11-1-12

I'm with Giulia and Patty... Not thinking of it that way, not feeling compelled to tall someone for 42 hours IS  a big deal!!  Its a huge step. YOU ARE A NON SMOKER  WOOO HOOO!!!  I'm so proud of you!!  109 days!  Inspirational, my friend!!!

housabstew12
Member

Congratulations!  I cannot wait until I don't think about it!  109 days.....Inspirational!

About the Author
I'm a 64 year-old flight attendant for a major US airline. Prior to that, I owned an ice cream store and six hot dog carts and put my five kids thru college on hot dog earnings! Prior to THAT, I was Director of International Administration for Domino's Pizza, Inc. I was married to my H.S. sweetheart (dad of my 5 kids) for 17 years. I've been with Jeff for 23 years, but we just finally got married in 2016! Jeff & I live in Cape Meares, OR right on the beach. I'm from Ann Arbor, MI, where many of my kids/relatives still live. My flying base is Washington, DC, where I have a condo that I stay in when I'm between flying trips. My dream is to retire and stay home with Jeff and my two cats, Kenneth & Barbara...not happening soon, though. So I go home whenever I can get a week or more off. I LOVE to meet up with other EXers in the cities where I lay over. I usually blog about what cities I'm laying over in, so let me know if I'm staying near you! I'll buy dinner!! Xxxooo, Sky