Judgment, punishment, to force or constrain.
Some of us need a good swift kick before we do what is necessary or right. Then, there are others who understand the stakes. I have too many friends that I haven’t heard from shortly into their quits. There is a whole segment of “want- to-quit†smokers who need a soft glove in their support. I am not comfortable kicking someone when they are down. If you feel you have been kicked, come by my page and say “Hi.†Put your feet up and listen to some tunes. I will help you up if you have fallen. We will make your shoes are tied up. Mistakes happen. What is important is the lesson we learn.
Why must a site that is not highly restrictive cast away those who need help the most? I, too, can feel frustration at those who are obviously not quite ready to take the leap. I cannot condemn them. I have been through enough in my life to realize that creating stress for a quit is quite frankly not worth it.
Those who feel good with aversion therapy have at, but please be mindful that there are those who you are just going to drive away. Find yourselves a site that has a strict no-smoking policy. I have and I’ve found it very beneficial. Just what I need, but I am not willing to create a hostile environment based solely on fear and reprisal.
Good Fortune to all on your quits!!