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Cold Turkey Or The Patch>>My Experience

JonesCarpeDiem
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There are plenty of people who have gone cold turkey here and been successful.

I can only relate my own experience with the patch.

I thought about quitting a month before and began saying, "dale wait a little longer"

I saw I wasn't buying cigarettes as often, which gave me a feeling of POWER

which in turn, got me to the last pack I bought one friday afternoon. I knew it was the last.

I quit the next tuesday at 7:15am.

In 40 years, I had never tried to quit before.

I had no knowlege of quitting whatsover except my experimentation during the month before my quit

with waiting longer between smokes,

So, I got the patch as a security blanket.

It was a great thing for me because I put my faith in it.

If I was feeling like I might smoke I always had one with me.

It was that belief in them that kept me calm, real or imagined

Like I said I didn't know anything before I quit so I was winging it.

There were 4 days (and not in a row) during my first 14 days that I forgot to put on a patch.

I could've driven home and put it on if I needed it but rather, I just experienced those days without them..

I began to laugh, chuckle or smile each time i craved from the 3rd day forward.

You see, I realized smoking was just a decision each and every time. That gave me POWER.

I listened and my body and mind came to the agreement  that I no longer needed them

after the first two weeks. I found a quit smoking site after I had stopped using the patch.

I kept one in my wallet fot the next few months like a teenager who thought  he  might get lucky.

I never needed it but it was always there to calm my mind.

So I say, It's all in what you believe. Your mind is where the power is.

12 Comments
james41
Member

jones, thanks for a simple but powerful message.

Patty70
Member

I used the patch when I quit some 60+ days ago. On Day 4, I stumbled onto this site, and only then did I begin to educate myself on nicotine addiction. If I had to do it over again, I would have made an informed commitment to myself to never smoke again, no matter what and then simply gone cold turkey.  

Mommaof2-3
Member

I have to agree with you. I am at day 24 and I am doing it just like you said. I used the patch for the first week just to ween myself off the act of smoking, day 5 I forgot to put the patch on and left it off for a day or so, put a new one on and that was the last. I do have one for safe keeping just as you! I do think that using the patch as directed only drags out the quitting process. Congrats n your sucess, and thanks for sharing.

healthyjayjo
Member

True, true, so very true!

dixiechick
Member

Well I am using the patch as directed on the box. Bravo to you who decided you didn't need to go the whole distance with it-I can only speak for myself, and this is my quit and my way is working for me. 🙂

Dixie

N.O.P.E.

kat72
Member

I too used the patch. Maybe it was the crutch I needed at the time. Got off the patch the night of Thanksgiving. I am at day 87. I am just happy I quit.!!!!

maggie_8-1-2010

I feel that it doesn't matter is you use the patch or other nrt or go cold turkey. A quit is a quit. Period.

JonesCarpeDiem

I agree. My main point in this whole blog was to get across not only that point that

your mind is the most important factor in your quit

ninepatch
Member

You are so right Jonescarp.  Everyone experience with their quit is special just to them.  Patch or Cold Turkey it doesn't matter as long as you are not enhaling smoke into your lungs.  My Dr. told me she didn't care if I used the patch for 2 years just as long as I quit enhaling cigarettes into my lungs.  The damage from the smoke can become irreversable.  Anyway,  I hope someday 4 years from now I can be handing out great advice like you.  Happy New Years!  Cheers 🙂

laurie37
Member

Great blog Dale!!!

(((HUGS)))

gaills
Member

Awesome blog, so true!!!  Thanks for sharing your experience.  I myself got the patch.  After 3 days (or was it 2?) I forgot to put it on.  Now I use them as bookmarks.

ter
Member

Good post! It really does boil down to whether we use the power we have.For me its just not consistant enough but still comes down to choices..good ones or bad ones.I can be really strong on some things some days and not so much on others.For me the patch or a lozenge can really help when my mind is in turmoil at times.24 hrs for me and thats probably the way I'll look at it.Each day make that choice..maybe many times each day.

I'm so thankful this place and you all are here:) terry

About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.