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Bargains & Promises That Began And Kept My Quit

JonesCarpeDiem
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Bargains and promises I made with myself

1. A month before I quit I decided I would say "'I'm going to wait a little longer" before I smoked a cigarette.

    By doing this, I eliminated all the automatic cigarettes and went from 20 a day to 5 a day. 

2. During that month I promised myself  my only excuse to go ever back to smoking was if a tragic accident took my wife and daughter. 

      Pretty severe I know, but, this placed a strict boundary in my mind.

3. When I stopped using the patch after two days of forgetting to put one on, I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself I would put it on, rather than smoke.

     That patch stayed in my wallet my first year. I never needed to use it.

4. I promised myself I wouldn't put myself in risky situations.

    This was pretty easy for me because the only person I was around that smoked didn't go to bars with me and California already had the strictest laws about smoking in public or in restaurants and bars.  I believe most states now have those same restrictions.

What are you doing to begin or keep your quit?

 

 

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.