I need to get the opinions from all the ones before me....Where should I be right now? I am finishing up day 19, and the thoughts of smoking have diminished a great deal. It occurs to me once in a while, but no true cravings. I know the physical stuff is over. The emotional stuff is about to get the best of me. I've posted before about the uncontrolled crying and how hard that is for me. I've gotten some empathetic comments that have assured me that this is normal, and will get better. I've gotten some flip comments that in a nutshell, have told me that the withdrawals are over and I need to suck it up and get over it. I've tried for the past week to do just that, but it hasn't worked out for me yet. I still burst into tears for no apparent reason and at the most in-opportune times. I have admit it is wearing me down. I'm almost to the point that if it will stop the tears I will smoke again. It has been almost 3 weeks and enough is enough. A friend told me tonight, after I had a complete come apart in front of him and his wife that "quitting isn't for everyone" and I might be one of those people that is just not going to be able to do it.
I don't want to smoke. I don't want to go back to hiding out.....smelling bad.....spending money just to burn, but I'll be honest with you, I can't do this emotional roller coaster much longer. If it truly will get better, I might be able to hang in there a few more days, but I can't hang on the edge like this indefinately. This is interferring with work, with my family time, and is shaking me to the core. To be perfectly honest, at this moment I'd rather go back to smoking than live like this much longer.
For those of you who like "tough love"....I know what you are going to say because I've said it all to myself. This is just an excuse. Just don't smoke. You're just being a baby. You're just rationalizing. blah, blah, blah....I've been harder than that on myself, but you get the idea. The reality of it is, I can not live like this, but I don't want to smoke again, either. Whether it is my quit, or something else, it doesn't matter, if this is going to continue for weeks on end....I give! I'm hoping someone can give me hope.....or tell me I'm crazy.....or tell me it's time to see my doc.....something. I don't know what to expect or do next? I dont' want to go running to my doctor if this is just a normal part of quitting.
Is the fact that after friends stopped by and innocently asked me how my quit was going and I burst into tears, and have been crying since then....almost 2 hours now.....normal or am I in some serious trouble?