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About Day #3...

SkyGirl
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  Day 3 is the hardest day in your first week.
   
  This is the day that the last of the drug nicotine is leaving your body.  Nicotine's half-life is about two hours and it takes about 72 hours before all of it is out of your system.
   
  Your brain realizes that this is happening.  Your brain starts to scream louder than on Day1 and Day 2.  Your brain will yell at you: "Give me nicotine!  You know I love it!   You know we NEED it to be okay!!"
   
  This is GOOD.  While your brain is screaming at you, it is very hard to see that this is a good thing.  The louder your brain screams "We are almost out of nicotine!!  We MUST have nicotine!!", the more evidence you have that that you are about to be nicotine-free.
   
  After Day 3, the physical withdrawal from the chemical nicotine is over.  But the brain takes a much longer time for the receptors to heal and return to a pre-nicotine condition.
   
  Your brain has nicotine-addiction memory.  It will continue to hound you: "Where is that nicotine we love so much?  You'll feel so much better if we get some nicotine!  C'mon, c'mon...it won't hurt to have one".
   
  How your journey goes from now on is up to you.
   
  You will get a million suggestions and tons of advice on how to keep your Quit.  Take what resonates with you.  And leave the rest.
   
  There is no perfect way to quit.  There is no magic formula.  Do what works for YOU.
   
  In the end, there is only one inviolate rule:  Do not put any nicotine into your body.
   
  As long as you follow that rule, you are victorious over nicotine.
   
  It's simple, right?  But it's not "easy".  Sorry, Allen Carr, but it is NOT easy.  But you can do it.  And it is easi  ER if you understand what is happening in your brain when you stop feeding it nicotine.
   
  Today, you are an ex-smoker.  You can be an ex-smoker tomorrow.  And everyday thereafter.
   
  And that makes you victorious.  Congratulations!!!
   
  (Please note that this blog refers to Quitters who have chosen not to use any NRTs.)
   
  xxxooo,   Sky
   
9 Comments
JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Hey Sky, Thank you.  It is always good to review. Have a great weekend.

YoungAtHeart
Member

Good to see you!  Great blog!

Nancy

froguelady
Member

🙂 Good one.

linda258
Member

It works. At least it did for me. 

kkapow03
Member

Than you for this advice. I had originally set my quit date for 3/21/15, and had done well up until Day 5, when I succumbed to the cravings and bought a pack of cigarettes. They lasted 2 days, so I re-set my quit date for Friday, 3/27/15. So today is my Day 2, and I feel okay. Am trying my best to keep myself busy so I won't  think about smoking.

I just have to keep telling myself that's it the best thing for my health, and that I can't afford to keep smoking. It's just getting over that hump around Day 4 to 5....

djmurray
Member

You are so right, Sky, and we all need to remember that we have brains with addiciton memories.  That's where those surprising out-of-the-blue craves come in NML.  I have been very fortunate to have had not exactly an EASY quit, but one that is much less difficult than previous ones and what I anticipated for this one.  The difference is completely in attitude and acceptance.  I do not treat my fleeting memories of smoking as anything more than a cloud passing by.  It's not a crave, it doesn't hurt me, and if I don't fight it, it just goes away. 

sparky26
Member

Yes , if I remember. right there were tears on day three.

Maybe not "easy" but definitely not as hard as I always believed it would be either !

Strudel
Member

Another great one Sky! 

bonniebee
Member

I had to laugh when you wrote "sorry Allen Carr it is not that easy " Because since I read  his book  it has crossed my mind over and over again..... am I the only one that disagrees with him ?  It is not easy for everyone and even with me every time I have quit it is different . The first time I ever quit was the hardest and this time has been the easiest BUT not easy all the time either,

I have ups and downs with the cravings and stress or upsets really affect the cravings and  urges to smoke .The calmer I am the easier it is but life is fullof ups and downs and one must get used to it as a non- smoker !

Sky it is so nice to hear from you I always love to hear what you have to say ! Another great blog that I hope the newbies like me read ! Thank You !

About the Author
I'm a 64 year-old flight attendant for a major US airline. Prior to that, I owned an ice cream store and six hot dog carts and put my five kids thru college on hot dog earnings! Prior to THAT, I was Director of International Administration for Domino's Pizza, Inc. I was married to my H.S. sweetheart (dad of my 5 kids) for 17 years. I've been with Jeff for 23 years, but we just finally got married in 2016! Jeff & I live in Cape Meares, OR right on the beach. I'm from Ann Arbor, MI, where many of my kids/relatives still live. My flying base is Washington, DC, where I have a condo that I stay in when I'm between flying trips. My dream is to retire and stay home with Jeff and my two cats, Kenneth & Barbara...not happening soon, though. So I go home whenever I can get a week or more off. I LOVE to meet up with other EXers in the cities where I lay over. I usually blog about what cities I'm laying over in, so let me know if I'm staying near you! I'll buy dinner!! Xxxooo, Sky