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A Little Rounder but still thankful

smorgy8513
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‎11-29-2013 07:16 AM

Morning all.    Hope everyone had a great day yesterday.    I had my 2 "boys" and it was great to have them both with me.    Long time since it has been just the 3 of us!     Ate too much, watched a movie with them, did some talking and of course, hugs.     My youngest is struggling with depression and I've encouraged him to get back to dr for meds and see a therapist.    He is questioning who he is and what his purpose is.   This is something that younger folks usually do but he doesn't have the maturity of many other 34 year olds.   Makes me sad though to see him so sad.     Overall though good day!

Today....going to go in to the office and do a bit of paper work, office is closed so it will be quiet and I can get more done.    Then to grocery store and home to bake a couple of batches of Christmas cookies.     Christmas will be here so quick and I always run out of time and feel stressed.    Don't want as much of that "gift" this year!       

Enjoy the day!      

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YoungAtHeart
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‎11-29-2013 10:17 AM

I love your attitude.  Have a GREAT day!

Nancy

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Riverdance
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‎11-29-2013 10:58 AM

I love the way you acknowledge your sadness about your son, but don't let it get you down.  That is such a great strength to have.  Have a great day.  Cookie making is one of my favorite therapeutic activities; not to mention eating them 🙂   HUGS.

Caroline

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candylance
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‎11-29-2013 11:13 AM

Therapy has really helped me! Glad you had such a good day, and sorry that your sister wasn't up to a visit. Love you!!

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wishingstar
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‎12-01-2013 05:55 AM

I hope your son finds peace and sounds like you had a lot to be thankful for

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Gone but Not Forgotten. RIP I've thought so many times about quitting, done a few quits with the longest being 9 months. Blamed that relapse on my sister because she broke her hip. This time I feel different 8/5/13:The first day of my forever quit. About me? Well, I'm old enough that I am going to semi-retire (work 2 days per week) starting in October, 2013. I have 2 grown sons, 2 older sisters, 2 cats. I'm passionate about my work, love mystery books. I give all the glory for my work, any successes I may have to God and prayer. I have a lot of people praying for me right now and that is where I feel the strength. I also am finding strength, information and support from this site. I hope I can offer some of that to others when I get past the newbie stage. 9/4/13 30 days today!! I've learned so much since I've been coming here each morning (and sometimes at night). Words: choose, not try-----decision----not giving anything up, but gaining---I'm worth so much more than a cigarette. These are only a few of the pearls of wisdom that I've taken to heart. So many great people. I learn something each and every time I come on here. I'm learning about myself too. I teach clients everyday that feelings are feelings and ok to have, but I've always fought that concept myself. I heard when I was little "what have you got to cry about?" so I learned not to cry. If anger was shown it meant going back and shutting the door 10 times quietly or maybe getting the wrath of my parent. So, I learned not to cry, not to feel anger. I'm learning now that I have those feelings and that smoking pushed them aside and down. They are there and real. Now I'm trying to learn how to show and express them instead of going off by myself for a smoke. I have supporters. The biggest pride is what I feel in myself. With each day I wake up I can say "Today is day ____" and I feel proud. Not the kind of pride like I could never fail. That is a realization and why I need to be aware and conscious each moment. No, smoking doesn't solve anything. And today I am proof that I can go on without the crutch of a cigarette! 8/5/17 4 Years Quit!!! Who would have "thunk" it? I never took responsibility for my relapses, always blamed whatever it was that occurred. So, when I quit on 8/5/13 I knew I REALLY wanted it to work, knew that I needed as much support as I could get but I think deep down I was afraid this one wouldn't take either. So, I did as much positive as I could: Chantix, prayer, atomic fire balls, telling friends AND coming to the EX many times throughout the day. The people here became my friends as well as my family. I could share when I was struggling and get encouragement. Have there been struggles in my life since then that would have "caused" me to smoke in the past? Of course! Life goes on and troubles happen even when you don't smoke. I lost my sister who was also my best friend, my diagnosis of lung cancer and the treatment that has gone on since then (dr tells me "not curable, but treatable"). Would smoking make any of those things better? OF COURSE NOT! But when you're an addict the brain tells tons of lies to you..... Newbies: use the resources that the EX provides to you and you will have major milestones too. I thank my family here and love each and every one of you that have helped me! Too many names to mention.